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How to R.O.C.K Out Your Goals For the New Year [Day 2-30 Days to Changing Your Game}

This is Day 2 of 30 Days to Changing Your Game. Yesterday I talked about preparation and commitment. Without these two things in place, the remaining 29 days will have little impact. Today, the amazing Sherman Hu is going to kickstart the challenge by digging in deep on his unique planning process. Hang on cuz it is AWESOME!

How To R.O.C.K Out Your Goals For The New Year

by Sherman Hu

At the end of 2010, what would you realistically like to say has happened?

If you could wave a realistic magic wand and look ahead to the end of the coming year, what would have to have happened in each area of your life for you to be happy with the progress you made in the year?

Or, it’s December 31, 2010. You’re having dinner with friends. What would you realistically like to be able to tell them has happened over the past year?

3 Reasons Why You Will Benefit From Planning

My incredible mother-in-law, Ann Griffiths, a savvy business owner and coach, sat me down 7 years ago to flesh out my values and impart lessons in effective planning I’ll reveal to you below. Ever since, I’ve had the tools to live and accomplish with purpose, along with helping ourselves and others.

I remember my session with Ann in her living room like it was yesterday, and the feeling of new found freedom with the wisdom she shared with me. I’d like to pay it forward and share it with you today. Shall we?

We’ll get to the 3 powerful questions above in a moment. Before we do, let’s unpack 3 reasons why Yearly Planning is important:

Living With Purpose

Motivational speaker, Jim Rohn, once shared, “I find it fascinating that most people plan their vacations with better care than they plan their lives. Perhaps it’s because escape is easier than change.”

If we want to be intentional and purposefully live out the various areas in our lives that matter, it makes sense to invest more time and focus on this than on vacation planning, don’t you think?

Help Yourself, Help Others

Success psychologists reveal 95%-97% of people in the world do NOT have written goals and fail, while 3%-5% have written goals and succeed. Let’s stack the odds in our favor, shall we? You’ll help yourself and in turn others around you when you choose to be the 5% of people who succeed with written goals.

You and I can make the choice to breakthrough and realize our talents and potential. Here’s one of my favorite quotes exemplifying how you help others by allowing yourself to shine first…

“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented and fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small doesn’t serve the world. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It’s not just in some of us; it’s in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”

Accomplish With Purpose

Though I’d be lying if I tell you I stick or follow my plan throughout the year after planning for it, there’s something magical about planning your new year and watching it unfold throughout the year, sometimes in the most mysterious ways.

There have been times in the past where my wife, Sarah and I would plan for the upcoming year, and conveniently forget to refer to our plans, but yet, our goals would come to fruition through us sub-consciously working it out to our favor. I’m not recommending you do this, but it happens. What I’m proposing is a way to effectively plan and accomplish your goals on purpose.

When you live with purpose, helping others around you by manifesting your genius, you’ll accomplish your goals on purpose with the R.O.C.K.ing strategies I’m about to share with you. Let’s begin…

What Is This R.O.C.K-ing Concept?

R.O.C.K. is an acronym for this planning concept. Let me unpack it for you…

R: REVIEW

O: OBSERVE

C: CHART

K: KICK-START

“R” for Review suggests before we can plan ahead, we need to take some time to remember our “Accomplishments & Frustrations” of our current year. As I unpack this strategy for you below, you’ll discover some easy and effective ways to do this.

“O” for Observe proposes we identify trends and indicators of our victories from our list of ‘Accomplishments’. Similarly (and for me, often more importantly), observe the pain, frustrations and agony of missed goals and setbacks.

“C” for Chart refers to mapping out your vision, next year’s intentions, quarterly goals, and monthly actionable items.

“K” or Kick-Start is the part most of us are geared up for, to mobilize our new year with productive actions. After reviewing, observing and charting for the new year, it’s time to kick our plans into high gear.

Tip: If you’re organizing a yearly planning session – solo or with your significant other – I highly recommend a remote location, eg. local hotel, resort, some getaway somewhere. There’s peace in being away from the natural stresses and interruptions of life, and you’ll be more engaged in this process. Trust me, Sarah (my wife) and I have tried both ways, and our getaways are definitely more productive.

“R”: Steps To Reviewing Your Current Year

Those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it” ~ George Santayana.

Everytime I review my Moleskine weekly calendar or my iCal for the current year, something magical happens. Memories of events, happenings, victories, and shortfalls flood into mind like opening a jack-in-the-box. I mentally return to that event in time and emotions stir again.

For example, I had a near-death emergency flight experience in August this year. Recalling that day’s event conjurs memories of panic and the fear I wouldn’t see my family again. It brought to mind how precious my family is and how fragile life and time is. As a result of reviewing it with Sarah during our planning weekend getaway in November, I’ve since closed several ‘active revenue’ practices in my business, and turbo-charged my plans for ‘passive revenue’ in 2010.

Can you see the value in ‘reviewing’ now?

I believe a life worth living is worth recording or journaling. And the review of one’s current year helps us to remember the past – not to repeat our failures and to savor the victories and journey well traveled.

If you have experienced this, you are tracking with me now. If not, I recommend you do. If you have not recorded events and memories, attempt to remember them and begin journaling.

What did you accomplish this year?

What were your main frustrations?

Do this across your different Life Areas. Below are some Life Areas you can use.

8 Sample Life Areas

Just like when you shop for groceries at your local grocery store, take what you like, leave what you don’t. Not all Life Areas will work for you or everyone. But these Life Areas work for me, so I’m sharing what I personally use.

With these sample Life Areas, journal what you accomplished in each area this year, along with your main frustrations. Personally, I prefer to work per Life Area at a time. This means I’ll determine my victories and my main frustrations in my Business Life Area first, then move on to Spouse & Romance, then on to the next Life Area. There is no one Life Area that is more important than another, as they are all part of your ‘Wheel Of Life’.

If you’re tracking with me or are action-oriented, I suggest pausing here, and journaling your Accomplishments and Frustrations now.

“O”: Steps To Observing Your Accomplishments And Frustrations

Let me define ‘observe’ according to Dictionary.com. Observe is a verb, whereby you see, watch, perceive or notice. To regard with attention so as to see or learn something. To watch, view or note for a scientific, official or other special purpose.

Do you perceive or notice any trends in your year in review?

Did you learn something or anything from your year in review?

Did you note any actions, events, disciplines, and habits that made you smile? On the other hand, did you observe events or trends in your year in review that frustrated you to no end?

At this point, rate yourself on how well you did – on a scale of 1 to 10 – in coming close to your vision and goals for this year, as set last year. Naturally, if you did not set your vision and goals for 2009 in 2008, this is a guesstimate. This rating will come easier at the end of 2010, when you’re planning for your 2011 year, as you would have planned your work and worked your plan as per this R.O.C.K.-ing system.

Can you see why this is important? I may not have to spell out the obvious, but this observation process is critical to how you pace yourself for the upcoming year’s plans. Let’s move on now to step C: Charting your next year.

“C”: Steps To Charting Your Next Year

1 Year Charting

I’ll share 3 questions that has been very effective in helping me chart my next 365 days. Use 1 or all of these questions to help you chart your next year’s plans for each Life Area. They key is to write (or type) your one year plan in first person, as if you’ve already accomplished it. My favorite question is #3, as it’s easy for me to imagine enjoying a great meal with friends and sharing all the happenings over the past year.

Question 1: At the end of 2010, what would you realistically like to say has happened?

Question 2: If you could wave a realistic magic wand and look ahead to the end of the coming year, what would have to have happened in each area of your life for you to be happy with the progress you made in the year?

Question 3: Or, it’s December 31, 2010. You’re having dinner with friends. What would you realistically like to be able to tell them has happened over the past year?

Planning for the upcoming year is super, but in years past, I’ve setup yearly goals only to lose sight of it during the year. A system that keeps me accountable throughout the year is more effective. One that keeps me on track quarterly and monthly is even better. Let’s unpack these systems now, shall we?

90 Day Charting

With your one year plans for each Life Area in hand, determine the 90 day goals for each Life Area.

When you flesh out your quarters for each Life Area’s 1-Year Plan, you get to see how they build upon each other to accomplish your 1-Year vision. You’ve just introduced some structure and ‘legs’ to see your vision come to fruition.

Personally, I set a maximum of 3 strategic focus per quarter (90 days). As we look at the 30 day charting below, we’ll expand each strategic focus with 2-3 action steps per.

30 Day Charting

For every Business Strategic Focus (90 Days), expand it with 2-3 action steps per month (30 days). Doing this helps you determine what actions steps you need to rock out each of your 90 day goals.

The natural progression is to plot each action step (eg. A, B, C) in your calendar (digital or paper is fine) and focus on making these a reality.

You might have come across the phrase, “Sometime is not in the calendar”. Without inputting an event into your calendar, there’s a tendency to let each action step pass on by, which leads to failing to meet your strategic focus, and each Life Area’s vision for the year.

In my situation, Sarah and I have great intentions to start ballroom classes as a fun alternative to our date nights. Due to ‘busyness’ and claiming we’ll do it ‘sometime’, it never panned out this year. Guess what is in Month 1 of ‘Spouse & Romance’? I’m calling the local ballroom studio, booking and attending our first few classes with Sarah! We can’t wait, it’s going to be a blast :-)

The agony of purposeful intentions without purposeful living out of those intentions is painful and haunting. Don’t let 2010 slip on by. Make it happen and R.O.C.K it out.

“K”: Steps To Kick-Starting Your New Year

With your 1-year vision for each Life Area, 90-day strategic focus and 30-day action steps in place, it’s time to kick-start your 2010.

Ever come across the phrase, “How do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time.” In the same way, focus on one action step at a time is your best bet for success.

If you’re action-oriented and have completed the above exercises, select the first action step you’ll take action on RIGHT NOW. Momentum is a powerful force, so kicking one of your action steps in motion – no matter how big or small this motion is – is a positive step in the right direction. Do it now.

Are You Going To R.O.C.K. 2010?

When you REVIEW your current year’s accomplishments and main frustrations in each of your Life Areas, OBSERVE trends and patterns to your victories and defeats, CHART your 1-year vision, 90-day strategic focus and 30-day action steps into your calendar, and KICK START your new year’s plans with motion, you’ll be on your way to ROCKIN’ OUT your 2010.

Would you care to share your thoughts and feedback? Would you like to chime in on which portion of the above R.O.C.K-ing strategy that’s of value to your 2010 planning? Appreciate you weighing in … and let’s ROCK OUT 2010!

Sherman Hu is a husband in love of 14 years with Sarah and proud parent to 2 fabulous children whom they homeschool. They reside in Vancouver BC. His definition of success is the love and respect of his family.

Sherman is a web marketing subject matter expert. Using his unique strategies, he has helped clients across North America and Europe realize multi-million dollar sales. Through his tutorials, web TV show and conferences, he has trained thousands of business owners on blogging, podcasting, video, social media, search engine optimization and web marketing. He writes a monthly column in an industry marketing magazine and creates curriculum for a Web Marketing eLearning company based in Atlanta.

Connect with him on Twitter (@ShermanHu) or via his blog at http://shermanlive.com/.

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  • Anonymous

    Notes For The Tribe:

    Hey all!

    First, for those of you subscribed to the email list, you have my sincerest apologies for the Aweber hiccup last night that sent out Day 6. Ah, Technology. 

    Second, if you have signed up for the email list and aren’t getting a daily email from me, you must complete the “double opt-in” process. This means there is an email from me somewhere in in your inbox or SPAM folder that has a link in it that you MUST click on to confirm your subscription.

    Third, if you haven’t subscribed to this series via email, you are missing out on some little extra’s and increased connection. You can sign up here: http://bit.ly/30daygame

    Fourth, I am setting up a Facebook Group for us later today so everyone can connect there as well.

    And finally, here is today’s theme song: Start Me Up: http://tinysong.com/7k4S

    Whew! You guys are AWESOME!!!!

    Love,
    Sarah

  • Anonymous

    Great worksheet. Is there a way to get a printout of it?

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Good morning, Michele! Thx for your RT (http://twitter.com/michele7962/status/767354329) :-)

      I *may* have a printout but…

      I would encourage you to create your own. Make it yours. Customize it how you need. A simple spreadsheet will do. The simpler, the better. Something you can have with you at all times, ie iPhone (or BB), laptop, Moleskine (or other planner). From experience, a complicated spreadsheet looks impressive, but overwhelms :-(

      ROCK ON!

    • Anonymous

      Michele I copied and pasted it into Google Doc’s and printed it off. You could probably use Word too but Google Doc’s automatically converts it to a PDF. That way you can save it two ways to refer back to.

      • Anonymous

        Thanks – I copied and pasted into Word. It didn’t look quite so good, so I’ll try Google Doc.

  • http://www.jessilicious.com Jess Webb

    Wow, great stuff, Sherman! I love it! :) Gave me a good structure to do my planning/goal setting for the year! :) I am also wondering if it’s possible to get a digital copy of the charts you used? Looks very handy for organizing everything!

    I got out my journal and started right in on the Reviewing and Observing as I read through the article. Can already see some trends/patterns that I want to work on and change this year – good to see this stuff and know where to focus! :) Thank you for the great insights and guidelines!

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Good morning, tehjess! Thanks for diggin’ it ;-) If you catch my reply to Michelle above, it’ll answer your question about the ‘digital copy’.

      Congrats on ROCKing out on “R” and “O” and observing trends & patterns you’ll leverage on for 2010! ROCK ON!

      • http://www.jessilicious.com Jess Webb

        Great – thanks Sherman! I appreciate the reply. :) I’ll get busy creating my own… :)

        • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

          U R welcome ;-) I’ll have a product for ROCKing out shortly…coming soon to a browser near you ;-)

  • http://www.soulfilledlife.com Heather Gray

    Thanks Sherman. Great tips. I love the idea of “Reviewing” 2009 before plunging into planning for 2010. Gonna do that today…

    And Sarah you are Rock’n – tech glitches and all.

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Good morning, Heather! You are welcome! Good on ya for working on your “R” today!

      And yes, Sarah Robinson ROCKS!!

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  • http://EarthandSoulStudios.com/ Lisa Hines

    Yep, I’m a firm believer in planning ;) Of course, I think everything in moderation is good, too. I know people (ahem ::raising hand::) whom have used planning as a distracter from getting things done, too. Nicely written :)

    Lisa

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Good morning, Lisa! Yay for planning! ;-)

      Do you want to know what I use daily / weekly to get a ‘move on’ from Planning to Productivity?

      I discovered about “3 Big Rocks” for the week and “3 MITs” (Most Important Tasks) daily from Leo Babauta (http://twitter.com/zen_habits), in his book – From Zen To Done (http://zenhabits.net/2007/11/zen-to-done-the-simple-productivity-e-book/) . He’s also author of http://ZenHabits.net.

      Concept?

      Work out your ’3 Big Rocks’ for the week, that you want to chip away at or blow outta the water this week. One of the Big Rocks should align with your goals to move you ahead.

      Then on a daily basis, create 3 MITs. These MITs, when checked off, signify you worked on what’s most important for the day, to get you closer to chipping away or blowing up those 3 Big Rocks. Make sense?

      No need for complicated systems for this. A simple Post-It Note for the day works. Or in my case, I write my 3BR and 3MITs on my week-at-a-glance Moleskine.

      Hope this helps! Say No to Procrastination, say Yes to Productivity! ;-)

  • http://twitter.com/mckra1g mckra1g

    I want to be in the 3-5% who achieves her goals this year. I’m very thankful for the medium of twitter, which has allowed me to come into contact with ppl who challenge me to fulfill my potential. More important to the challenge is the fact that these leaders have graciously shared in the methods of their achievement so that others may evolve into their own personal best.

    I love the expansive quality of excellence. It’s invigorating!

    • Anonymous

      Yep – I agree. My friends are incredibly generous – I am blessed and now you are too!!! Yay for you for committing to be in the 3-5%. Rock on!!

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Good morning, mckra1g! Good on ya for wanting to be 3-5%! ROCK ON w/ excellence!

  • http://www.laurieboris.com/ Laurie Boris

    Sherman, this is excellent material. I especially like the concept of looking backward at 2009′s accomplishments and frustrations in order to set goals for 2010.

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Laurie, good morning! Thanks for much for reading and giving your props for this post! Here’s to you looking back so you can spring forward in 2010! W00T!!

  • http://www.myrecipeforlife.com/ daniellemmiller

    First…great post. Introspective, thoughtful and comprehensive. This is A LOT of information to digest, so I suggest coming back to this post as you move through a goal setting process. Goal setting is, in my opinion, an art that requires continual practice. My background is in special education and goal setting is a particular specialty of mine.

    Sherman makes an absolutely critical point in his post in that you MUST evaluate your progress or find a way to measure what you’re doing (not fun for those of us who “sweat” the detail, but necessary in hitting your target. It’s also equally important to look at what you have been doing in order to adjust or stay the course.

    The PLAN is crucial! I’ve worked with people who say “what’s the point of a plan because things change?” Well, yes, that’s very true, but with a plan you have a structure in place that SUPPORTS the change in plans, roadbumps and obstacles that WILL come up:-)

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Good morning, Danielle! Thanks so much for your meaty comments, appreciate ya!

      You are right. This ain’t no filler, it’s very meaty :-)

      Evaluating as we go is key, isn’t it? Brilliant emphasis on this, and the fact that planning gives us structure for the flux that happens throughout the year.

      ROCK ON, Danielle!

  • Anonymous

    Sherman, this is fabulous. Since the lovely Ms. R said yesterday that the only stupid question is the one that goes unasked – here goes! I tend to get “flooded” or “overwhelmed” with this step and your step-by-step makes it really manageable. Thank you. Question: I’m out to radically change my game this year by beginning something completely different (see Sarah Robinson’s BURN YOUR SHIPS post). Since I’ve got some stuff to learn and I’m still developing what IT is, do you have any tips on distinguishing realistic goals from setting goals that are too small a game? I have also sometimes spent lots of time in “researching, developing, learning” instead of getting out there are doing. Again – THANKS!!

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Good morning, LaConsuelo! Thanks for reading and offering your feedback!

      I have 2 thoughts for you…

      (1) Stretching: It’s common for peeps to reach for the sky, setting massive goals. The drawback to it for some is the feeling of overwhelm and they may not even give it a good try as it seems like a gigantic ‘elephant’ to chew on.

      The alternative is to observe your history (2009) and pace. Then set 2010 goals you believe you WILL accomplish, beyond a shadow of a doubt.
      Only you will know how to set S.M.A.R.T. (specific, measurable, attainable, realistic and timely) goals for yourself in 2010. And when you reach them, you’ll feel fantastic! It’s like exercising a muscle after not hitting the gym or circuit for a long period of time. Pace yourself, take it one step at a time, and hit your milestones. As we all know, we can be in a whole lotta pain if we hit it massively hard in the gym after a sabbatical! ;-)

      (2) Action Plan: From what you shared, you’ve spent alot of time “learning” instead of “doing”. One idea I share is to use a journal or planner that can be blank on both sides (no lines). Jot your learning points (and where you found it) on the left side of the planner, and the action points, steps and dates on the right side of the planner. The key is to focus on the ‘Action Steps’ on the right side of the page, set dates to what you’re going to do or outsource and make it happen!

      Hope this helps! ;-)

      • Anonymous

        Really helpful, Sherman – thanks again. Item 2 – your action plan suggestion is particularly helpful since once I get started “researching” I lose myself down the proverbial rabbit hole. This is a great tip to keep my focus.

        R.O.C.K.’ing it -
        Connie

        • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

          Connie, U R wlcm ;-) Glad I could help you stay out of the ‘rabbit hole’ ;-) Here’s to your FOCUS in 2010! ;-)

      • http://debmallett.com/ Deb Mallett

        What a great idea – the left/right sides of the journal! I have the exact same problem Connie has and this sounds very promising. Thank you for this suggestion. The whole article is fantastic, Sherman. I am putting it all into practice and looking forward to seeing it all unfold.

        • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

          U R welcome, Deb! It’s a very practical yet productive solution to overwhelm. Share your results when you’ve put it into practice ;-)

  • http://twitter.com/AlexConde AlexConde

    Thanks Sherman and Sarah,

    A great start and already I’m getting good ideas. The funny thing was that I said I’d been meaning to pick up a new notebook “sometime”. You should have seen my face when I read that!

    • Anonymous

      Well see Alex, mind-reading in one of my skills!! (just kidding – glad you are getting/have gotten that notebook!)

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Hey Alex, great to read your comment here!

      RE: “Sometime” – LOL!! HAHA!!

      ROCK ON, eh?!

  • Anonymous

    I’m sending this post to my husband so we can start a plan. Lot’s of work ahead but definitely worth the effort.

    • Anonymous

      Excellent idea! Make it a team effort!!

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Good on ya, Stephanie!! Planning with your spouse is fantastic for time-alone and a meeting of the minds to prep for the new year ahead. I love planning with Sarah, my wife! The beauty is we determine our priorities and schedules *together*, and are on the same page for our direction in the new year.

      Tip: As we’re both busy people, we’ll give and take with our priorities and activities during planning. For example, Sarah’s a director and actor in theatre. If she’s planning to direct one stage play and act in one for the year (along with being a superb Chief Home Executive & fantastic Mom to our 2 home-schooled children), then I adjust my business schedule/travels for the year. I’ve been known to scale back from attending/speaking at 5 conferences a year, to just 1 or none ;-)

      • Anonymous

        Yes, in the past I’ve been notorious for planning my own thing as far as business goes (not in the personal life). He goes one way, I go another. Now that we both are self-employed and work out of the house, it needs to operate differently. Getting started is always the hard part, but I can see the end result is where we want to be.

        • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

          Stephanie, good on ya! U will definitely be blessed by the side benefits of planning together! Time together, being in sync – mentally, in your spirit, physically, emotionally, and its amazing what a couple who is in love and in sync can accomplish! “Watch out world, Stephanie and hubby coming through!” ROCK ON!!

  • Diane Easley

    When I read these words: “The agony of purposeful intentions without purposeful living out of those intentions is painful and haunting. Don’t let 2010 slip on by.” I reminded myself that a few of my goals for 2010 were also goals for past years! This charting idea certainly makes things seem a lot easier – or perhaps it is because I am finally prepared and committed…hmmm. Thanks!

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Hey Diane, the ‘agony’ spurs me on to greater heights and renewed commitments. It’s all gooooood ;-)

      ROCK ON 2010, Diane!!

  • http://www.anjwritesabout.com AnjWrites

    I’m going to be totally honest here – when I first started reading I thought, “Oh, but I’ve heard all of this before” and I wasn’t really feeling it. Then when I got to Charting and the specific Life Area’s – BAM – it hit me! This is fantastic stuff, Sherman, and exactly the level of detail in planning that I’ve needed. I have always been good about getting inspired, I tend to naturally draw fabulous people toward me when I need to hear certain messages. But as I see it, my main downfall in acheiving my goals has been that I’ve been “too much Forest and not enough Trees”. I am really excited to grab my time alone today to put R.O.C.K. to work for me. Wow – and Thank You!!

    • http://www.accessabundance.com/ Teresa Romain

      Thanks for your honesty Writergrrl! I didn’t want to admit that I started reading this info with an “already heard it/know it” attitude… but the visual of the areas of life and charting a course hit me in the face like it sounds like it did for you. This is what I have NOT been willing to do before… and I’m even still a little resistant now… but, like you, I’m going to take some time to start putting ROCK to work. So thanks for inspiring me!

      • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

        ROCK ON, Teresa! Good on ya for making changes, taking steps forward to ROCK it! ;-)

      • http://www.anjwritesabout.com AnjWrites

        Glad I wasn’t the only one who started out feeling too sure of “what I know” just to be set up to be knocked off my feet with something that I have ABSOLUTELY needed. I know what you mean about feeling resistant – for me that often signals something is really important – so now I am ready to buckle down and move through the discomfort to make 2010 rock with serious success!! Glad to be on the journey with you, Teresa!

        • http://www.accessabundance.com/ Teresa Romain

          Ditto (about being on the journey with you)! I’m now starting to recognize resistance as a signal for me to REALLY pay attention!

          • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

            Teresa, I observed my own resistance today, and realized it was self-imposed. I dug in, checked into my 3MITs again, and broke through! What was rollin’ in my head was, “Motion Before Motivation”. And I did do damage to 2 of my 3 MITs today, might even get some motion on MIT #3 later tonight! ;-) ROCK ON!!

        • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

          Writergrrl, proud of U for observing your own ‘resistance’ and what it means from here on out. Not all resistance is ‘off’, but your intuition will be on point. Do keep in touch via Twitter (@ShermanHu) to let me know how you’re ROCKin’, k? Cheers!

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Writergrrl, I’m sooooo thrilled to read your feedback! I’m excited you didn’t toss this article out, that you kept on diggin’ in!

      ROCK ON!!

      • http://www.anjwritesabout.com AnjWrites

        Wouldn’t dream of tossing out wisdom just because I’m not sure how it’s helping (in fact, that is often how I know I’m on the right track)!! You were able to start with some of my all-time-fave quotes/concepts and then catch me totally off guard with a NEW way to harness all of the inspiration into purposeful action. Like I said, pretty much exactly what I’ve been needing!! BTW, your follow up comments on this thread have really enriched the article. Now I’m off to start R.O.C.K.in’ my Chart!! ;-)

        • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

          Writergrrl, thanks for your props, very humbling! W00T, W00T to fav quotes/concepts – really dig ‘em too! Hope other peeps get to dive into the comments as I’ve revealed other productivity concepts that could really be another full-out article! ;-) Cheers!

    • http://www.thepromotionguy.com/ Scott Toomey

      I am with you…Charting and Life Areas hit me between the eyes…Duh! :)

      • http://www.anjwritesabout.com AnjWrites

        That’s exactly what I thought (with requisite head slap), “Duh!”… Glad I wasn’t the only one, Scott!

  • http://twitter.com/rosecasanova Rose Casanova

    Thank you Sherman. I appreciate your charting system as I’m best with smaller doable goals. The big picture sometimes overwhelms me. You have reminded me that breaking things into smaller parts makes for better success. Btw I love the head shot photo of you….very rock and roll.

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Hey Rose, 3 cheers to ‘mini bites’! (Especially after the holidays and loads of good eats, ‘mini bites’ sound good to me! ;-)

      Thx for the props on the head shot! ;-)

  • Ava Diamond (@feistywoman)

    Thanks, Sherman. I already thought you were amazing. This just shows me one more level of your amazing-ness!

    Until recently, I’ve never been a planner. I’ve let things evolve, and have just kind of gone with the flow. And my life has floated along in a lovely way. After leaving Corporate America, I’ve had my business since 1995, and am a speaker, author and consultant. I have great friends, live in beautiful Colorado, and am passionate about my work.

    But I haven’t played big.! My business doesn’t reflect my potential, or how awesome a speaker I am. I haven’t set huge goals and gone after them. I’ve let my self be stuck playing a smaller game than I could be.

    So I’m changing that. Now.

    I’m ready to play bigger. I’m ready to find bigger audiences that will benefit from my message. I’m ready to take the “Feisty Woman” brand bigger. I’m ready to find more women’s conferences and venues where I can keynote and offer breakout sessions to women whose lives I can impact in a big way. I’m ready to create products that will help women live the lives they crave. I’m ready to learn more about internet marketing. I’m ready to help more organizations understand how to market to women. I’m ready to play bigger than I ever have before.

    It’s scary, and exhilarating and liberating all at the same time. And your planning format will help me take the plans I’ve created for 2010 and “tangible-ize” them even further. Your format is extremely helpful for someone to whom planning does not come naturally. Thank you for that, Sherman.

    Thanks, Sarah, for a wonderful start. Thanks for this community you are bringing together. And thanks for expressing the truth of who you are so beautifully.

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Ava, U ROCK!! Thanks for connecting with me on Twitter, and now here. I’m so thrilled to know you’re going to ROCK OUT LOUD and take it to a whole other “fiesty” level! I hope to see it LIVE IN LIVIN’ COLOR!!

      Many blessings of joy, laughter and adventure to you in 2010, Ava!

  • http://sallyg.me Sally G.

    Sherman – you exude intelligence AND you’re taking Ballroom Dancing classes with your wife? *swoon* In the comments below, Lisa mentioned that there’s a danger in using planning as an avoidance tactic for action (I actually thought she was talking about me, such is my ego) – along similar lines, I wonder if this ultra-planning keeps you so focused (and perhaps limited) on what you have decided will work for you that you miss opportunities that show up serendipitously (synchronistically, coincidentally) that could spin you in an unanticipated but much more effective direction towards your purpose? I also felt connected to LaConsuelo’s comment about planning for something to create and launch vs something that already exists – dictating that some goals have to be a little more general and open-ended than others. You have been very generous with your time and information, thank you. I look forward to the Facebook Page — and I can’t help but wonder why my two friends (Lisa and Laurie) show up looking like electrical outlet toaster faces.

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Sally, I’m all about romancing my wife, Sarah (@SarahHu). One thing we’ve done for many years is a weekly date, and we keep it in our calendars religiously! We’ve had sitters for years, and alas, our children are at ages where they can take care of themselves while we’re out. To keep it real and spicy, we want to try new things for our date nights. Ballroom dancing is definitely a spicy activity for couples

      RE: Ultra-Planning: I hope all of us don’t buy-in to the notion that we can’t be flexible or change our plans throughout the year once we’ve set it in place. The focus coming from a crystal clear vision & planning is brilliant – it gives me an intentionality like no other. For example, I love to cook, especially if its flavorful, spicy and fun! :-) When I look at a recipe, I don’t think, “Oh, I don’t have oregano and paprika, so I can’t cook this dish!”. On the contrary! I would look in my spice cabinet for alternatives and options to KICK IT UP A NOTCH! BAM! U vibin’ with me? Roll with it, make changes if you need to get to your end goal ;-)

      RE: New or Existing – I’m from the mindset of “If it ain’t broke, don’t fix it!” – if your existing “stuff” are in alignment with your vision/end goals, then ‘pimp it out’! Overhaul it, make it good. Might be easier than starting from scratch. Next, when you’re done pimpin’ out your existing ‘stuff’, then roll out with new ‘stuff’.

      Hopefully this ‘stuff’ helps! ;-)

      • http://sallyg.me Sally G.

        Thank you Sherman. I really appreciate the time you’ve invested in me. Now, I must step up – and buckle down (actually, I like your thinking better – I’m going to step up and Pimp It Out)!

        • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

          ROCK ON with PIMPIN’ IT OUT!! :-)

      • http://www.accessabundance.com/ Teresa Romain

        Hey Sherman! LOVE your cooking analogy because that’s the way I cook! I use recipes as a starting point for creativity and inspiration, not something to follow rigidly… never thought (until now) of using a plan (for my business and life) with that same energy! That shifts my whole energy and relationship with my plan! Love it!

        • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

          Teresa, THAT’S BRILLIANT you’re taking the same FLAVA FLAV energy from Cookin’, over to your Plannin’ ;-) And be sure to spice it up with some cayenne! HAWT!! ;-)

  • http://www.chrysulawinegar.com/ Chrysula

    It’s all here. Not rocket science, just clear, thoughtful and easy to access steps. Love your take on the planning and goal setting model Sherman. I’ve spent a lot of time on the goal setting and calendaring, but have never really undertaken a detailed review process. Of course the old adage of doing the same things delivers the same outcome comes to mind. I need to assess what I accomplished and what I missed before I can move on. Thanks for sharing.

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      U R wlcm, chrysulawinegar! Yes, I think I’m as smart as a rocket scientist, but I fall far from it :-) But I know I can make complicated stuff simple, LOL!

      Here’s to you and your REVIEW of Accomplishments and Frustrations! ROCK ON!

  • Audrey_Godwin

    Sarah and Sherman,

    Thank you, thank you, thank you!

    I absolutely love this! I am visual, so this is a great way for me to incorporate the work that I do annually in a way that will motivate me to actually look at it and use it! I did spend some time reading all my journals for 2009 to look at the theme for the year and those things (accomplishments and disappointments) that will help shape my 2010.

    Sherman is this available to purchase? I can see this being a great tool for the clients I serve!

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Audrey, thanks so much for reading and giving your feedback! And thanks for lovin’ it ;-)

      I’m in the mindmapping phase of a product around this. When I do, it’ll be available at http://ShermanLive.com. Cheers Audrey!

  • http://twitter.com/va4hire Marta Costa- OBM, VA

    Goodness! Thanks for the reminder that there are various aspects on the Wheel of Life. I’ve been so focused on my business for the last year and a half that sadly, I’ve let things slide on some of the other aspects of my life. I now see that I can plan for all of the different areas of my life and keep up with them if I try to do it in smaller chunks over shorter periods of time. I’ve never been much of a planner–I’ve always let whatever is happening determine the course of the day,week, month, etc but I can see the value in making a plan even if it doesn’t all pan out perfectly.

    • http://www.accessabundance.com/ Teresa Romain

      Hey Marta!

      It’s comforting to know I’m not the only one who has focused so exclusively on my business that the rest of my my “wheel of life” has gone FLAT!!!! I kept thinking that – once my business got to XX point – THEN I’d work on the other areas of my life. Only lately have I realized that the “holes” in the other areas of my life are also keeping me from moving forward in this business. And I’ve avoided planning too… I’ve been good at dreaming… and hoping… and wanting.. and seeing possibilities. But actually creating a conscious plan and then following through with action… well – that’s why I’m playing this game. Just wanted to say thanks for sharing what you shared!

      • http://twitter.com/amyhoy Amy Hoy

        Marta, Teresa,

        “I kept thinking that – once my business got to XX point – THEN I’d work on the other areas of my life…”

        You guys… you’re certainly not alone here. This is me to a painfully exact T. And while I KNEW it, on some level, only in the past 24 hours has it really sunk in.

        I moved to Austria from the US to be with my husband. I love it here, but I haven’t flourished. Because… I would take a German course when our traveling let up, when our business was going smoothly. Ditto for joining groups, taking lessons, and finding friends.

        My Wheel of Life is flatter than a pancake. And to extend your metaphor, Teresa, we’re on UNICYCLES, so if our Wheel’s flat, we’re pretty much SOL!

        No wonder I don’t have the energy I need for my business, either!

        (Mmm, pancakes. Something else they don’t have in Austria.)

        • http://www.accessabundance.com/ Teresa Romain

          Hi Amy! Lovin the connection.. and the changes we’re all taking on. Something you wrote got me thinking.. thought I’d share. I wonder if we really are on unicycles or if we just think we are? I’m clear – it’s MY “wheel” and MY Life… but I wonder if part of my problem has been thinking I’m all alone, it’s up to me … even now I (by myself) have to get my wheel inflated again! Don’t know if I’m saying this clearly… but something about you saying we’re on a Unicycle struck me. Thanks for sharing it!

      • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

        Thanks for sharing again, Teresa!

        Personally, my ‘definition of success’ (in my bio) reveals the reason why I do what I do. And it would be sacrilegious for me to claim as such and not be intentional in my time and efforts to uphold what I ‘preach’, ya know? Furthermore, my ‘emergency flight experience’ has heightened my sensitivities to ‘what really matters’, and “What I would do if this is the only day/week/month/year I have left?”

        Keeping the above in mind, I set out my calendar and priorities accordingly, and it keeps me “True North” and moving in the right direction ;-)

        Hope this helps!

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Marta, thanks for reading and sharing your feedback!

      The phrase “All Work and No Play Makes Marta A Dull Girl” comes to mind, LOL! Honestly, I’m thrilled you’ve been reminded of the other parts of the ‘Wheel of Life’, and I pray you’ll give ‘em some love in 2010 ;-)

      ROCK ON!

  • Shelley

    Can I say I KNEW IT! Sometimes it just gels when someone else explains it in a way that you could never articulate on your own! Fabulous!

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      “I KNEW IT, Shelley!”

      hehe, yes, you can say it! ;-)

  • Shelley

    Also, I am going to forward this to my husband. THIS is his language, he he! Can I hear someone say, “SAME PAGE!”

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Shelley, did he read it? What did he say?

  • http://kcarpenter.pnn.com/ QuestionKerri

    Overall, I really liked this post. I especially related to the quote near the beginning. “Our deepest fear is not that we are ….” But I do have a question. How do I make an action list for a goal that is out of my control? For example, my love life was a big frustration last year. At the end of 2010 I would love to say that I have a healthy love life. But then I get stuck on how to make that happen. I guess I could say, “I’ll join a dating website.” But that’s not something I feel 100% comfortable with. Any suggestions?

    • http://twitter.com/amyhoy Amy Hoy

      Hey Kerri, boy have I been there.

      You can’t control the universe but you can give it a hint. I don’t know what exactly your situation is, but I’m 100% positive that there’s something you can do to increase the chances it’ll be better this year.

      From my own experience, the #1 thing I ever did for my love life was put myself first. I gave up on looking and focused on me — doing things that made me feel happy and healthy, exercise, time alone, writing and teaching, meeting people, etc., and being the best friend I could absolutely be. I was so much happier.

      I think when I met my now-husband, that’s what he noticed first :) (And if it’d been 9 months sooner, I bet I would have ignored him out of my misery!)

      There’s always SOMETHING you can do. Write down all the obstacles, let yourself have a good rant about em, and then settle down to knocking em obstacles out.

      Good luck!

      • http://kcarpenter.pnn.com/ QuestionKerri

        Thanks so much, Amy! I loved what you said and I really get it. My BFF has declared this “the year of Kerri.” And I think it’s the best time for me to finally put myself first and concentrate on all of the things I love and that make me happy. ;-)

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Kerri, thanks for sharing your feedback and asking this question.

      I looooove that quote, just gives me goosebumps!

      First off, like Stephen Covey said in one of his books and in one of his ‘habits’, ONLY work in your Sphere of Control (I’m paraphrasing, unsure if that’s the term he used). Your LOVE LIFE is part of your “Romance” hub in your ‘Wheel of Life’, and should be within your ‘control’.

      Naturally, working on what you ‘CAN’ control is key. I may be preaching to the choir, but I’ll take a stab at it, as I don’t know what is ‘common sense’ and what isn’t… here goes…

      Everything from:

      - Fitness & health (one needs to be fit to keep up with Cupid, no?)

      - Personal well-being (hair care, skin care, teeth, wardrobe, perfume etc)

      - Your values (value statements) crystalized so you know what you stand for and what you won’t stand for. (The phrase, “If you don’t stand for something, you’ll fall for anything” applies here)

      - Critical or important characteristics, values, personality, habits, desires, choices you seek from your future significant other (aka ‘make a list, baby!’ ;-)

      - Choosing to live life in your areas of passion (and being in ‘community’ with like-minded peeps who share your passion). This will be an environment where you may find prospective dating connections!

      - And if whoever’s reading this is ‘boring’, then get ‘un-boring’! Try new things, new adventures, new foods, new wardrobe, new skills, anything new to get you outta your box. The act of trying new things will be new, and this could put you in an environment where you’ll meet new people and who knows, even your next date! ;-)

      Kerri, you vibin’ with me? All the above are within your control. You make your choices and actions, and that’s what you have full autonomy and control with.

      I know some have found love connections via dating websites, ie my sister and brother-in-law through a popular dating site, but if I was ever in a position of having to date again (“knock on wood!”), I would passionately live life, and be in groups and communities where I’m being myself, having fun, involved in activities that recharge me. When you’re having fun, others are drawn to you. And … well, you know how it goes from there ;-)

      Hope this helps, Kerri!

      • Anonymous

        Hi Kerri and Sherman,

        Kerri I know your pain. I have been a single mother for three years and its getting a little old. I too have done the “search” but anyone that I have seen that seems worth my time, does not view me with the same mindset.

        Sherman: I understand the concept and to be honest I think that if I take this year to fill it with the many things on my list (getting my MA degree which means a thesis, focussing on a new 7 year long research project I was invited to be a part of, and the 3-5 buisnesses I’ve got under my belt, plus my children and my job, I am hopeful that I will have enough on my plate to avoid falling into the looking trap. What I really appreciated here Sherman was to put yourself into a place where you have fun. That thought had not struck me before. Thanks for the tip.

        • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

          Kristie, I give the highest, MUCHO PROPS to single parents!! It’s definitely some serious butt-kickin’ work! Appreciate the journey you’ve been walking. WOW! You’ve got a whole lot of spinning plates coming…do care for yourself ok? I’ve burnt out before, and my wife shared it took me 2 years to get back to my ‘normal self’. And yes, have fun! ;-)

          • Anonymous

            Hi Sherman, I am getting my MA in counselling psychology and my program is really good about ensuring that we learn how to self care because we are faced so much with the trauma of our clients. So I do try and ensure I have fun and today got accepted to be a Miss BC contestant. So that should be fun….

          • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

            AWESOME!!!! CONGRATS on your Miss BC contestant acceptance!! W00T!!! I’m in Abbotsford, where do U hail from?

          • Anonymous

            I am in PoCo although I am out in Langley a couple times a week for classes. I would love to meet over coffee to pick your brain if that is at all possible

          • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

            Kristie, best to connect over the phone or skype :-) Email me @ shermanlive [at] gmail [dot] com to kick it off, k? Cheers!

      • http://kcarpenter.pnn.com/ QuestionKerri

        Thanks Sherman!!! I’m definitely vibin’ with it! I can’t control other people but I can control myself and the things I choose to do and enjoy. I’m going to really set aside some time to go over my whole Wheel of Life. (Sorry it took me so long to reply – icky cold and super busy at work.) Thank you so much again!

  • http://www.accessabundance.com/ Teresa Romain

    “When the student is ready, the teacher will appear” is already starting to play in my mind… only I think it’s going to be teachers (plural) for me. I think this 30-Day Game is just what I need. Thanks for the visuals, Sherman… I’ve heard much of what you shared before… but the simple visuals (the Areas of Life and the Charts) nailed me! That’s what I’ve never committed to before (perhaps for fear of failing.) Guess what? That guaranteed I failed. So – even though my day is LOADED with previous commitments, I’m going to begin the ROCK process… I can see how it can really GUIDE me to the results I want… with so much LESS struggle than my previous, unplanned route!

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Brilliant, Teresa! ROCK ON!! Here’s to you and your new process!

      • http://www.accessabundance.com/ Teresa Romain

        Thanks again Sherman! Now’s when the rubber starts meeting the road… better start ROCKin!

  • SarahFirestine

    This is amazing. I’ve always planned on planning, but never really planned and looked back through everything to make sure that I was stying on track. Great resource and inspiring!

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Sarah, one bite at a time. One step at a time. Do just one thing today, just one thing, towards R.O.C.K. Commit to yourself and ‘us’ that you will do one thing today. Then one thing tomorrow. Then one thing the next day. Before you know it, you will have ROCKed it out ;-)

  • trina

    hi there – i love all these ideas. what is intimidating to me is the sheer number. we’re focusing on 8 action areas, then focusing on 3 actions for each – that’s 24 things i have add to my to-do list and worry about in a given day, along w the everyday tasks of work and family..never mind other work projects. and emergencies that might come up? big trouble.

    i’ve read others’ advice in this situation is to focus only on one action area at a time. what do you think about that, sherman? thanks.

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Trina, I’d kick myself if I thought I added more stuff to your plate via this post. Consider this: R.O.C.K.ing it will give your ‘life’, ‘day-to-day’, ’2010′, whatever else PURPOSE.

      Remember, how do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time. And do you buy everything at the grocery store? Nope, just what you need, right?

      In the same vein, maybe select 3 life areas you want to fine-tune and plan for 2010.

      Then, when you’re having dinner with family and friends in December 2010, what would you like to share has happened in those 3 areas in 2010.

      Now, imagine having lunch with a girlfriend in March 2010. In those 3 areas, what 1 thing would you like to share has happened by March this year?

      OK, just consider what’s the 1 thing you should complete this month, January, to get you closer to your March victory?

      That’s only 3 items you need to focus on completing in January!

      Possible? Very, right?

      Can you do it, amidst the many ‘spinning plates’ you spin? Yes you can.

      Will you do it? That I cannot answer. Only you know.

      Whaddya say, Trina? One bite? :-)

      • trina

        great response, sherman. thanks for the ideas!

        • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

          Thanks Trina! Here’s to your ‘one bite’ !! ;-)

  • http://www.momsdailyretreat.com/ Amelia

    Hi All, this is great information- I am a firm believer that we cannot set goals without knowing first what our guiding values are- I just blogged on this very topic today! This is certainly the time to begin putting goals on paper and nailing down very specific goals. This is truly a process and warrants more than an hour or even a day- great information here, thanks!

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Thanks for sharing, Amelia! You are right, having goals without a clear vision or direction is like setting pit-stops on the map or GPS unit, but not knowing your destination. Could be fun if you’re up for a joy ride, but could be frustrating if you’re trying to get somewhere ;-)

      When my MIL, Ann Griffiths, coached me through crystalizing my values, it was like the heavens parted and the angels sang in 7-part harmony!! It’s just like the popular song “I Can See Clearly Now” by Johnny Nash…

      I can see clearly now, the rain is gone,
      I can see all obstacles in my way
      Gone are the dark clouds that had me blind
      It’s gonna be a bright (bright), bright (bright)
      Sun-Shiny day.

      Here’s to you and your many blessings in 2010!

      • http://www.momsdailyretreat.com/ Amelia

        Fantastic- love it! I had a similar experience- I think just making certain connections between goals and values help me to identify why I was not achieving certain goals and really forced me to get honest about some things.
        Here’s to you and a happy and fulfilling 2010!

        • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

          Amelia, thanks so much for your 2010 well wishes for me! Appreciate ya! :-)

  • http://twitter.com/amyhoy Amy Hoy

    Sherman — FANTASTIC acronym. I have to know… did you decide on ROCK and then figure out how to make it fit? It’s awesome. I’m a big believer in the use of funny and catchy metaphors and acronyms for teaching serious things. My hat’s off to you, sir! (Serious note: I’m pretty sure it’ll help me actually use the system. Does that sound silly? Maybe it is. But if you can name a thing, and remember it, it seems like the battle can be won! And since I’ve had the most hectic year and a half possible, I’ve COMPLETELY backslided on my goal-keeping. It’s been enough just to make it through all that awesome / exhausting cr*p. But you’ve helped rev me up to change that. Thanks — you too, Sarah!! )

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Amy, thanks for your feedback!

      Hmm, what came first, the chicken or the egg? LOL!

      Hmm, I’m caught between a “ROCK and a hard place” coming up with an answer…

  • http://www.kimberlyanielsen.com Kim Nielsen

    Thank you for providing such an organized process, Sherman. I’m naturally a planner, but like many people find that the more specificity I can give myself, the better. This really helps to break down a year and multiple areas of life.

    To me, this confirms that my decision to keep a journal this year was a good one — without really digging into this yet (just thinking through the steps) the “R” seems to be one of the most difficult steps. It can be easy to forget some of the smaller successes (and failures) that you achieve over the course of the year.

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Kim, you are welcome! Glad this will be of value to you!

      The “R” can be a slower process, doesn’t have to be though, if one has written it down throughout the year. But oh so rewarding! I loooove turning back the pages of time and revealing victories and naturally, frustrations of the year. Gives me ‘juice’ to be and do better in the new year!

      ROCK ON!!

  • Anonymous

    Hi Sherman

    Thank you for a great post. Lovin the K. Going to kickstart my 2010. I have an erase board I am going to implement your weekly idea for action items and next to that a piece of paper that will have my monthly accomplishments that I will be striving for.
    Quick question: Do you feel yourself restricted or find yourself missing other opportunities because of the goals? That is something that is floating around in my head and would love your feedback.
    Thanks again
    Tricia

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Tricia, good on ya for kickin’ it up on your board!

      Frankly, no.

      Why?

      Because I know I can change my plans if it doesn’t work, or I see another route to get to my destination – easier, faster, fun-ner! ;-)

      And, its just a guide. I map it, it doesn’t map me. I’m the one with the binoculars atop the tallest tree, in my Tarzan outfit , yelling “Over there!”…then swinging from the vines to get to “Jane” ;-)

      Hope my ‘monkey-ing’ around helps with your question ;-)

      • Anonymous

        Hi Sherman
        Thanks for the reply. Really enjoyed the visual too. Appreciate all the comments.
        Got stuck in my head on all this goal stuff. Time to swing to another vine and get out the binoculars. :) WOO HOO
        Here is to 2010 may we all Rock.

        • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

          Tricia, you are welcome! ;-) How’s the view from the other tree? :-)

          • Anonymous

            Hey Sherman
            The view is really broad with lots of vines showing the different trees I can swing to:) This is too funny. Thans

  • Anonymous

    That was awesome. I was able to plan out the entire year with ease. The only area which was difficult for me was Personal. In this exercise I REALLY come up against things that may not be good for me, but I’m unwilling to commit to a certain date to LET GO. So…I’m not being overly hard on myself…but will use this area to try to Loosen Up. Also…Don’t you think this exercise is a super quick start to feeling your power? The trick is deciding WHAT you want. Thank you! Megan

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Megan, congrats on R.O.C.K.ing it!

      Do you mean “Personal Growth”? Yes, loosening up is good. Let’s define it some more. What can U tangibly set in a S.M.A.R.T. (specific, measurable, attainable, realistic and timely) way that will help you loosen up? Could be hiking, cooking, sleeping, reading, exercising, walking, etc etc)

      And re: Letting Go…

      What is the pain and worst thing that can/will happen if you don’t let go (assuming its not good for you)? What other areas of your life will be negatively impacted if you don’t let go? What impact will it have on you, your health, mental well-being, wealth, spirit, etc if you don’t let go?

      And what are the positive results, joy, blessings you’ll receive if you DO let go? What other opportunities can/will you invite into your life if you DO let go? What impact will it have on you, your health, mental well-being, wealth, spirit, etc if you DO let go?

      Hopefully this visualization will help you commit to making a decision, embrace it, and ROCK OUT with your new direction!

      • Anonymous

        Thank you Sherman! I will read that several times. :) )

        • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

          You are welcome, Megan! Brilliant! ;-)

  • http://twitter.com/cherrywoodburn Cherry Woodburn

    Well I have some work to do. Looking back definitely highlighted trends, nothing surprising yet seeing it in print makes real. Going to set up excel sheet now and do more planning than I’ve ever done. I related to what Ava Diamond said and since I want things to be different in 2010, I’ll have to operate differently. Thanks for your time and interest. Cherry

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Good on ya, Cherry! Here’s to you keepin’ it real and a different reality for you in 2010!

      Cheers!!

  • Anonymous

    Great to be part of this community! I’m resonating with so many of the comments here. I want 201o to rock for me and I feel in very good company in trying to achieve that.

    I don’t lack the ability to visualise and plan, but I’ve historically been less good on follow through. I’ve committed to a process of weekly and monthly review for myself this year and so far so good. The other thing I struggle with is productivity. I seem to have SO many things that need done that my most important goals don’t get the attention I’d really like to give them. Any advice on this, Sherman, would be gratefully received.

    Thanks so much for a really useful and thorough post.

    • Anonymous

      Hi Christine

      I completely understand where you are coming from. Today I really got stuck in information overload. Ended up answering emails and doing other stuff that is not quite as productive as I would have liked. It is almost 4pm and I am starting to create and write now. I think it is about finding more of a blance and being present with what is in front of us.

      So excited to be here as well and hope you are doing well

      • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

        Tricia, I find opening emails and social media to be a time-suck first thing in the AM.

        Consider blocking your day according to your rhythms. If you write like a fiend in the AM, then write for an hour before opening your email (as a reward) :-)

        If you find my description of the “3 Big Rocks” and “3 MITs” below, it can help too! ;-)

      • Anonymous

        Tricia, apologies if you get two comments from me along the same lines. I thought I’d sent a message, but then scrolling through, it didn’t seem to be there, so I’m trying again.

        I just wanted to say that it’s good to know other people are having the same experience. I think your point about information overload is spot on. I can find myself flitting between doing important stuff, like writing, and checking email, Twitter etc. As you say, being present with what’s in front of us is key. I’m going to be more mindful of that today, thanks to you :)

        I like Sherman’s ideas for Big Rocks and MITs and I’m going to try incorporating these into my life too.

        Good to connect with you and hoping this series allows you to thrive and fly!

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Thanks for your feedback, Christine!

      RE: Productivity: If you can scan the comments I’ve shared below on “3 BIG ROCKS” and “3 MITs”, it’ll help!

      RE: Follow through: Play a game with yourself. A pain/pleasure game.
      - If you follow through, you get “pleasure”, whatever that may be, something fun naturally ie. checking up on Twitter, Facebook, tennis, shopping etc.
      - If you don’t, you get “pain”, what you hate doing, ie pushups, situps etc.
      OR…
      Get a friend to be your daily accountable partner. Then play the pain/pleasure game.
      - If you followed through with your 3 MITs today, you get a “reward” or “prize” – whatever that is…
      - If you didn’t, you owe your accountability partner something, ie. money, favor, something that will be an ‘ouch!’

      Hope this helps! ;-)

      • Anonymous

        Sherman, thanks so much for this. I hadn’t seen the comments about 3 Rocks and 3 MITs, but I’ve scrolled back now and read them. Really simple, and actually I think I have a real need to make less mean more. So, lesson learned!

      • Anonymous

        This is brilliant one other good reason accountability is key in setting goals.

        • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

          Thx Joe! Appreciate your feedback re: accountability and your previous one about Google Docs/Word/PDF option ;-)

    • http://twitter.com/Mikki_Q Michele Sieniarecki

      Christine, I had to double-check your post, as I was sure I had written it in some sort of haze earlier and just didn’t remember doing so! You and I share that ability to plan but not follow through. I’m going to make a concerted effort to put all these tips into practice! Thanks, Sherman, for the valuable info! And thanks to Sarah (Robinson) for putting together this “Game Change”… if this is the kind of info we can expect, I’m more excited than ever that I signed up!

      • Anonymous

        Me too, Michele! I’ll be interested to see how you find this series helping you and to learn anything you have to share along the way.

        Good to talk to you!

      • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

        You are welcome, Michele! Here’s to your follow through in 2010! ;-)

    • http://twitter.com/lazarus2000 Lazarus

      I would suggest blocking your time out also. Make a list of 10 things to do each day, and write next to it the time it would take to do them. Got something that will take 5-15 minutes? Do those first and cross them off the list. Its empowering to see that list get smaller and smaller. Then, start with the most important things first, and move down your prioritized list. Dont spend any more time on something than you have allowed yourself. If you cant complete it in the time allowed, move it to tomorrow’s list! Another advantage is if you have something that you set an hour to do, then you know you have a deadline to get it done by and will force yourself to get it done before that time is over. Something else I would suggest is to really limit the “time black holes.” For me, the time black hole is email. Now, I check email 3x a day. I give myself 10 minutes each time, for a total of 30 minutes. In that time I know I have 10 minutes each time to read emails, write responses and move onto the next task. (This also keeps me from writing long winded emails.) Oh, and my other secret for keeping productive? Music! I play some music that keeps me pumped up and going. Make a Pandora radio station, or an itunes list with your favorite blood pumping music. It’ll keep you energized!

      And like Sherman said, try to schedule things according to your rhythms.

      • Anonymous

        What a fantastic message, Lazarus! I really appreciate it. Setting time deadlines and limiting time black-holes (in my case reading email and Twitter) I think could really make a difference. I’m going to implement this immediately.

        Hope you’re having a fabulous Sunday!

  • Anonymous

    Hi Sherman! Thanks for taking your time to give back to us in a big way. I really enjoyed this post and am looking forward to working on R.O.C.K.ing out my goals and manifesting my genius. I especially liked the broad focus and the narrow focus of a year down to 30 days. I’m going to break it down even more and have one activity for about each 10 days! Here’s to the first successful month of charting and thanks again for the kickstart in the rear!

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      U R wlcm! ROCK ON, Martha! :-)

  • http://www.thevirtualasst.com Michelle Mangen

    Oh I haven’t heard of ROCK before! I have printed this post and it appears I have a lot of work to do yet!

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Thanks for your feedback, Michelle! Thanks for printing it, helps alot I’m sure of that!

      Consider doing just *one* thing. Just *one* thing to move you forward, k?

      ROCK ON!

  • sarahrobinson

    Notes For The Tribe:

    Hey all!

    First, for those of you subscribed to the email list, you have my sincerest apologies for the Aweber hiccup last night that sent out Day 6. Ah, Technology. 

    Second, if you have signed up for the email list and aren’t getting a daily email from me, you must complete the “double opt-in” process. This means there is an email from me somewhere in in your inbox or SPAM folder that has a link in it that you MUST click on to confirm your subscription.

    Third, if you haven’t subscribed to this series via email, you are missing out on some little extra’s and increased connection. You can sign up here: http://bit.ly/30daygame

    Fourth, I am setting up a Facebook Group for us later today so everyone can connect there as well.

    And finally, here is today’s theme song: Start Me Up: http://tinysong.com/7k4S

    Whew! You guys are AWESOME!!!!

    Love,
    Sarah

  • michelesfakianos

    Great worksheet. Is there a way to get a printout of it?

  • tehjess

    Wow, great stuff, Sherman! I love it! :) Gave me a good structure to do my planning/goal setting for the year! :) I am also wondering if it's possible to get a digital copy of the charts you used? Looks very handy for organizing everything!

    I got out my journal and started right in on the Reviewing and Observing as I read through the article. Can already see some trends/patterns that I want to work on and change this year – good to see this stuff and know where to focus! :) Thank you for the great insights and guidelines!

  • http://www.soulfilledlife.com Heather Gray

    Thanks Sherman. Great tips. I love the idea of “Reviewing” 2009 before plunging into planning for 2010. Gonna do that today…

    And Sarah you are Rock'n – tech glitches and all.

  • Mike Korner

    Hi Sherman! Hi Sarah!Good exercise. Thank you. I’ve been doing a similar exercise for a few years now but I picked up a couple of ideas using this approach. Things I liked:* I really hadn’t stopped and reviewed 2009; I just sort of moved into 2010. Thanks for making me stop and formally think about it. * When you asked the “At the end of 2010, what would you realistically like to say has happened?” question in paragraph 1, I stopped there and wrote down my general (not by life area) wishes for 2010. Listing my general wishes for this year before listing my accomplishments from last year just felt better than the usual way.* In paragraph 2, I like how you said, “for you you to be happy with”. Making a list of things I have to accomplish to be happy with the year gets different results that if make a list of my goals for the year. Just further proof that semantics are important :) * Thanks for the great quote from Jim Rohn!* Thanks for the term “Life Area”. I’ve always just sort of thought of these as the parts of my life that are very important to me. “Life Area” is certainly a lot easier to say :) Observations/thoughts:*The most powerful improvement I’ve made in my life in the area of effectiveness came from implementing the planning exercise weekly. I did this several years ago after reading Steven Covey’s 7 Habits of Highly Effective People. His “First Things First” chapter is where I first encountered the “big rocks” story. * To help me stay focused, I made a one page weekly planner that has a section for each of my life areas. I’ve tried several variations of formatting but the key is that the weekly planner has to fit on exactly one side of one piece of paper. * Each Sunday I print an empty planner and note my big rocks (important action items) for the week. I print it because it forces me to unplug for a while. Full disclosure: I don’t make a new sheet EVERY week. Sometimes my current sheet is good enough for an extra week or two. I cross things off when done, and write things in that need added. When it gets too messy, I print and start fresh. The point is that it is a one-page map for what I want to accomplish. * I put my printed planner in one of those yellow plastic protectors. This makes it stand out visually amongst all of the other things I encounter during the week. When I see the planner, I almost always stop and peek at it to be sure I’m making the progress I envisioned during my weekly review. As with the other intervals you mentioned, the weekly plan only works if you schedule the related action items. * What do the cloud symbols mean on your chart? Sherman – thanks!Sarah – bring on day 3! (Just tell day 6 to wait its turn. I think it was just excited :)

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Mike, thanks so much for your wonderful feedback! Appreciate all you shared :-)

      RE: 7 habits – yes, I remember reading SC’s book way back when and applying Week At A Glance planning from then on, along with the Big Rocks. My Big Rocks fell off the cliff, and returned when I read Babauta’s Zen To Done :-)

      RE: Cloud Symbols: They represent anything U want it to :-) Just a symbol, maybe I can make up a meaning, like ‘reach for the clouds’ or something :-)

      ROCK ON!

      • Mike Korner

        RE: Cloud Symbols – thanks/cool!
        Could also be a subliminal reminder … “When your head goes off into the clouds, you’d best be thinking about these things thing” :)

        • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

          LOL!! I remember being told I had my head in the clouds – alot – when I was growing up!! ;-)

  • http://EarthandSoulStudios.com/ Lisa Hines

    Yep, I'm a firm believer in planning ;) Of course, I think everything in moderation is good, too. I know people (ahem ::raising hand::) whom have used planning as a distracter from getting things done, too. Nicely written :)

    Lisa

  • Anonymous

    Thanks for the charts and your reflections on the system, Sherman.
    I have a few bits filled in so far, and a lot more to contemplate.
    The eating the elephant thing.
    Michael

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Hi Michael, good for U for ROCKing it out!! And the elephant bit? Yes, try soya sauce with it, goes down much easier! ;-)

  • http://twitter.com/mckra1g mckra1g

    I want to be in the 3-5% who achieves her goals this year. I'm very thankful for the medium of twitter, which has allowed me to come into contact with ppl who challenge me to fulfill my potential. More important to the challenge is the fact that these leaders have graciously shared in the methods of their achievement so that others may evolve into their own personal best.

    I love the expansive quality of excellence. It's invigorating!

  • http://www.laurieboris.com/ Laurie Boris

    Sherman, this is excellent material. I especially like the concept of looking backward at 2009's accomplishments and frustrations in order to set goals for 2010.

  • daniellemiller

    First…great post. Introspective, thoughtful and comprehensive. This is A LOT of information to digest, so I suggest coming back to this post as you move through a goal setting process. Goal setting is, in my opinion, an art that requires continual practice. My background is in special education and goal setting is a particular specialty of mine.

    Sherman makes an absolutely critical point in his post in that you MUST evaluate your progress or find a way to measure what you're doing (not fun for those of us who “sweat” the detail, but necessary in hitting your target. It's also equally important to look at what you have been doing in order to adjust or stay the course.

    The PLAN is crucial! I've worked with people who say “what's the point of a plan because things change?” Well, yes, that's very true, but with a plan you have a structure in place that SUPPORTS the change in plans, roadbumps and obstacles that WILL come up:-)

  • Anonymous

    I have never been a fan of goal setting. I remember how painful it was to do this in elementary school, at which point, I wrote off the the entire process and value of goal setting. In large part, it was due to not being taught how to implement and follow through with these goals. I would find myself being extremely disappointed and hard on myself. What happened? I became a victim to this and thereby immobilized. This entire post has challenged that and I see a way, now, to be able to effectively set goals and be able to set a course of action to ensure that I reach those goals. Thank you Mr. Hu, for this insightful and propelling post. I feel completely re-energized into making sure I ROCK 2010. Thank you Sarah, for bringing Mr. Hu onto my horizon.

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Kristie, WOW! Thanks for sharing! U’ve just reminded me once again one of the most important reasons why I share the way I share, and that’s to add value to others! I’m thrilled to be a small catalyst for you to re-consider planning, and more importantly, share resources for you to be effective at it, without feeling the frustration of immobilization!

      ROCK ON, Kristie!! Many blessings on your 2010 journey! :-)

  • LaConsuelo

    Sherman, this is fabulous. Since the lovely Ms. R said yesterday that the only stupid question is the one that goes unasked – here goes! I tend to get “flooded” or “overwhelmed” with this step and your step-by-step makes it really manageable. Thank you. Question: I'm out to radically change my game this year by beginning something completely different (see Sarah Robinson's BURN YOUR SHIPS post). Since I've got some stuff to learn and I'm still developing what IT is, do you have any tips on distinguishing realistic goals from setting goals that are too small a game? I have also sometimes spent lots of time in “researching, developing, learning” instead of getting out there are doing. Again – THANKS!!

  • http://twitter.com/AlexConde AlexConde

    Thanks Sherman and Sarah,

    A great start and already I'm getting good ideas. The funny thing was that I said I'd been meaning to pick up a new notebook “sometime”. You should have seen my face when I read that!

  • http://twitter.com/sjcorum Stephanie Corum

    I'm sending this post to my husband so we can start a plan. Lot's of work ahead but definitely worth the effort.

  • Diane Easley

    When I read these words: “The agony of purposeful intentions without purposeful living out of those intentions is painful and haunting. Don’t let 2010 slip on by.” I reminded myself that a few of my goals for 2010 were also goals for past years! This charting idea certainly makes things seem a lot easier – or perhaps it is because I am finally prepared and committed…hmmm. Thanks!

  • Writergrrl

    I'm going to be totally honest here – when I first started reading I thought, “Oh, but I've heard all of this before” and I wasn't really feeling it. Then when I got to Charting and the specific Life Area's – BAM – it hit me! This is fantastic stuff, Sherman, and exactly the level of detail in planning that I've needed. I have always been good about getting inspired, I tend to naturally draw fabulous people toward me when I need to hear certain messages. But as I see it, my main downfall in acheiving my goals has been that I've been “too much Forest and not enough Trees”. I am really excited to grab my time alone today to put R.O.C.K. to work for me. Wow – and Thank You!!

  • sarahrobinson

    Yep – I agree. My friends are incredibly generous – I am blessed and now you are too!!! Yay for you for committing to be in the 3-5%. Rock on!!

  • sarahrobinson

    Well see Alex, mind-reading in one of my skills!! (just kidding – glad you are getting/have gotten that notebook!)

  • sarahrobinson

    Excellent idea! Make it a team effort!!

  • http://www.reignitingromance.com/ Rachel Miller

    Planning my year is actually one of my 2010 goals.

    I, like Teresa (Hi, Teresa! Great to see a familiar face here), thought I’d heard most of this before but have been resistant to actually doing it. Sherman, I love your approach. My favorite part is question #3 What would I like to tell friends happened this year? The other part that really resonated, also like Teresa and many others, was the “Life” planning instead of just business planning. I’m very excited to start on this tonight!

    Thanks for the great strategies!

    • http://www.accessabundance.com/ Teresa Romain

      Hey Rachel! Great to see you ROCK here too!!! Can’t wait to hear what you come up with for your answer to Question #3!

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Good on ya for starting tonight, Rachel!

      Me too! I love parties, especially when there’s great friends, delicious food, yummy drinks, and last but not least, energizing conversations!

      ROCK ON!!

  • http://twitter.com/rosecasanova Rose Casanova

    Thank you Sherman. I appreciate your charting system as I'm best with smaller doable goals. The big picture sometimes overwhelms me. You have reminded me that breaking things into smaller parts makes for better success. Btw I love the head shot photo of you….very rock and roll.

  • AvaDiamond

    Thanks, Sherman. I already thought you were amazing. This just shows me one more level of your amazing-ness!

    Until recently, I've never been a planner. I've let things evolve, and have just kind of gone with the flow. And my life has floated along in a lovely way. After leaving Corporate America, I've had my business since 1995, and am a speaker, author and consultant. I have great friends, live in beautiful Colorado, and am passionate about my work.

    But I haven't played big.! My business doesn't reflect my potential, or how awesome a speaker I am. I haven't set huge goals and gone after them. I've let my self be stuck playing a smaller game than I could be.

    So I'm changing that. Now.

    I'm ready to play bigger. I'm ready to find bigger audiences that will benefit from my message. I'm ready to take the “Feisty Woman” brand bigger. I'm ready to find more women's conferences and venues where I can keynote and offer breakout sessions to women whose lives I can impact in a big way. I'm ready to create products that will help women live the lives they crave. I'm ready to learn more about internet marketing. I'm ready to help more organizations understand how to market to women. I'm ready to play bigger than I ever have before.

    It's scary, and exhilarating and liberating all at the same time. And your planning format will help me take the plans I've created for 2010 and “tangible-ize” them even further. Your format is extremely helpful for someone to whom planning does not come naturally. Thank you for that, Sherman.

    Thanks, Sarah, for a wonderful start. Thanks for this community you are bringing together. And thanks for expressing the truth of who you are so beautifully.

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Good morning, Michele! Thx for your RT (http://twitter.com/michele7962/status/767354329) :-)

    I *may* have a printout <wink> but…

    I would encourage you to create your own. Make it yours. Customize it how you need. A simple spreadsheet will do. The simpler, the better. Something you can have with you at all times, ie iPhone (or BB), laptop, Moleskine (or other planner). From experience, a complicated spreadsheet looks impressive, but overwhelms :-(

    ROCK ON!

  • Anonymous

    Look at ya’ll getting all busy with it today!!! Proud of you taking action, connecting with Sherman and each other. THAT’s what game-changers do! Promise to weigh in a bit tonight, though by the looks of things you are doing great without me!!

    See you after the Young Turk goes to bed!
    Sarah

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Thanks Sarah, you have a vibrant tribe/posse here! W00T!! :-)

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Good morning, tehjess! Thanks for diggin' it ;-) If you catch my reply to Michelle above, it'll answer your question about the 'digital copy'.

    Congrats on ROCKing out on “R” and “O” and observing trends & patterns you'll leverage on for 2010! ROCK ON!

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Good morning, Heather! You are welcome! Good on ya for working on your “R” today!

    And yes, Sarah Robinson ROCKS!!

  • http://www.facebook.com/pages/Caring-Creates-/228986840568 Sally G.

    Sherman – you exude intelligence AND you're taking Ballroom Dancing classes with your wife? *swoon* In the comments below, Lisa mentioned that there's a danger in using planning as an avoidance tactic for action (I actually thought she was talking about me, such is my ego) – along similar lines, I wonder if this ultra-planning keeps you so focused (and perhaps limited) on what you have decided will work for you that you miss opportunities that show up serendipitously (synchronistically, coincidentally) that could spin you in an unanticipated but much more effective direction towards your purpose? I also felt connected to LaConsuelo's comment about planning for something to create and launch vs something that already exists – dictating that some goals have to be a little more general and open-ended than others. You have been very generous with your time and information, thank you. I look forward to the Facebook Page — and I can't help but wonder why my two friends (Lisa and Laurie) show up looking like electrical outlet toaster faces.

  • chrysulawinegar

    It's all here. Not rocket science, just clear, thoughtful and easy to access steps. Love your take on the planning and goal setting model Sherman. I've spent a lot of time on the goal setting and calendaring, but have never really undertaken a detailed review process. Of course the old adage of doing the same things delivers the same outcome comes to mind. I need to assess what I accomplished and what I missed before I can move on. Thanks for sharing.

  • Audrey_Godwin

    Sarah and Sherman,

    Thank you, thank you, thank you!

    I absolutely love this! I am visual, so this is a great way for me to incorporate the work that I do annually in a way that will motivate me to actually look at it and use it! I did spend some time reading all my journals for 2009 to look at the theme for the year and those things (accomplishments and disappointments) that will help shape my 2010.

    Sherman is this available to purchase? I can see this being a great tool for the clients I serve!

  • http://twitter.com/va4hire Marta Costa

    Goodness! Thanks for the reminder that there are various aspects on the Wheel of Life. I've been so focused on my business for the last year and a half that sadly, I've let things slide on some of the other aspects of my life. I now see that I can plan for all of the different areas of my life and keep up with them if I try to do it in smaller chunks over shorter periods of time. I've never been much of a planner–I've always let whatever is happening determine the course of the day,week, month, etc but I can see the value in making a plan even if it doesn't all pan out perfectly.

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Good morning, Lisa! Yay for planning! ;-)

    Do you want to know what I use daily / weekly to get a 'move on' from Planning to Productivity?

    I discovered about “3 Big Rocks” for the week and “3 MITs” (Most Important Tasks) daily from Leo Babauta (http://twitter.com/zen_habits), in his book – From Zen To Done (http://zenhabits.net/2007/11/zen-to-done-the-si…) . He's also author of http://ZenHabits.net.

    Concept?

    Work out your '3 Big Rocks' for the week, that you want to chip away at or blow outta the water this week. One of the Big Rocks should align with your goals to move you ahead.

    Then on a daily basis, create 3 MITs. These MITs, when checked off, signify you worked on what's most important for the day, to get you closer to chipping away or blowing up those 3 Big Rocks. Make sense?

    No need for complicated systems for this. A simple Post-It Note for the day works. Or in my case, I write my 3BR and 3MITs on my week-at-a-glance Moleskine.

    Hope this helps! Say No to Procrastination, say Yes to Productivity! ;-)

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Good morning, mckra1g! Good on ya for wanting to be 3-5%! ROCK ON w/ excellence!

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Laurie, good morning! Thanks for much for reading and giving your props for this post! Here's to you looking back so you can spring forward in 2010! W00T!!

  • Shelley

    Can I say I KNEW IT! Sometimes it just gels when someone else explains it in a way that you could never articulate on your own! Fabulous!

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Good morning, Danielle! Thanks so much for your meaty comments, appreciate ya!

    You are right. This ain't no filler, it's very meaty :-)

    Evaluating as we go is key, isn't it? Brilliant emphasis on this, and the fact that planning gives us structure for the flux that happens throughout the year.

    ROCK ON, Danielle!

  • Shelley

    Also, I am going to forward this to my husband. THIS is his language, he he! Can I hear someone say, “SAME PAGE!”

  • http://kcarpenter.pnn.com/ QuestionKerri

    Overall, I really liked this post. I especially related to the quote near the beginning. “Our deepest fear is not that we are ….” But I do have a question. How do I make an action list for a goal that is out of my control? For example, my love life was a big frustration last year. At the end of 2010 I would love to say that I have a healthy love life. But then I get stuck on how to make that happen. I guess I could say, “I'll join a dating website.” But that's not something I feel 100% comfortable with. Any suggestions?

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Good morning, LaConsuelo! Thanks for reading and offering your feedback!

    I have 2 thoughts for you…

    (1) Stretching: It's common for peeps to reach for the sky, setting massive goals. The drawback to it for some is the feeling of overwhelm and they may not even give it a good try as it seems like a gigantic 'elephant' to chew on.

    The alternative is to observe your history (2009) and pace. Then set 2010 goals you believe you WILL accomplish, beyond a shadow of a doubt.
    Only you will know how to set S.M.A.R.T. (specific, measurable, attainable, realistic and timely) goals for yourself in 2010. And when you reach them, you'll feel fantastic! It's like exercising a muscle after not hitting the gym or circuit for a long period of time. Pace yourself, take it one step at a time, and hit your milestones. As we all know, we can be in a whole lotta pain if we hit it massively hard in the gym after a sabbatical! ;-)

    (2) Action Plan: From what you shared, you've spent alot of time “learning” instead of “doing”. One idea I share is to use a journal or planner that can be blank on both sides (no lines). Jot your learning points (and where you found it) on the left side of the planner, and the action points, steps and dates on the right side of the planner. The key is to focus on the 'Action Steps' on the right side of the page, set dates to what you're going to do or outsource and make it happen!

    Hope this helps! ;-)

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Hey Alex, great to read your comment here!

    RE: “Sometime” – LOL!! HAHA!!

    ROCK ON, eh?!

  • Teresa Romain

    Hey Marta!

    It's comforting to know I'm not the only one who has focused so exclusively on my business that the rest of my my “wheel of life” has gone FLAT!!!! I kept thinking that – once my business got to XX point – THEN I'd work on the other areas of my life. Only lately have I realized that the “holes” in the other areas of my life are also keeping me from moving forward in this business. And I've avoided planning too… I've been good at dreaming… and hoping… and wanting.. and seeing possibilities. But actually creating a conscious plan and then following through with action… well – that's why I'm playing this game. Just wanted to say thanks for sharing what you shared!

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Good on ya, Stephanie!! Planning with your spouse is fantastic for time-alone and a meeting of the minds to prep for the new year ahead. I love planning with Sarah, my wife! The beauty is we determine our priorities and schedules *together*, and are on the same page for our direction in the new year.

    Tip: As we're both busy people, we'll give and take with our priorities and activities during planning. For example, Sarah's a director and actor in theatre. If she's planning to direct one stage play and act in one for the year (along with being a superb Chief Home Executive & fantastic Mom to our 2 home-schooled children), then I adjust my business schedule/travels for the year. I've been known to scale back from attending/speaking at 5 conferences a year, to just 1 or none ;-)

  • LaConsuelo

    Really helpful, Sherman – thanks again. Item 2 – your action plan suggestion is particularly helpful since once I get started “researching” I lose myself down the proverbial rabbit hole. This is a great tip to keep my focus.

    R.O.C.K.'ing it -
    Connie

  • Anonymous

    WOW!!
    Sherman, first I’d like to thank your MIL for “showing YOU the way”…so that YOU could share your amazing R.O.C.K. program with this group!! Second, I’ve got to tell Sarah that I am lovin’ her music selections and how much it adds to the message!

    OK…now some comments regarding planning & goals. HA!! I haven’t planned anything in the past 10 years!! I moved back to Louisiana to be a caregiver for my mom who was diagnosed with 4 or 5 immune system disorders. Whew, 5 1/2 yrs. of 24/7 care and taking care of household and my dad, too. Needless to say, Family/Home had top priority and with the little energy I had left, well, you get the picture…I just crashed/slept. All the other areas of my life were basically non-existent. There were 2 other tragedies in our family over the next two years. Again! I was called upon to be caregiver and still not taking care of ME. I am also a volunteer (helping others) and in a HUGE way! The last part of 2009 I crashed!! No balance at all…no goals to get past this big crash…until NOW!! That’s why I’m here!

    All of that being said, I have MUCH to think about….and I’ll share that when I saw the Romance category I just laughed out loud. I haven’t thought about Romance in quite some time.

    I am loving all the fabulous comments/sharing that is going on….a wonder-FULL group, Sarah!!! Kudos to YOU!!
    I’m thinking that I have a REALLY big elephant to eat and digest…and I’ll do it by taking small bites and smiling :-)

    Thanks again….YOU ROCK!!!

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Deb, thanks soooo much for sharing! You’ve given so much of yourself, time to refuel and recharge, eh? And yes, that includes Romance too

      Regarding that BIG elephant… yes, eating it in small bites is great for digestion ;-)

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Hey Diane, the 'agony' spurs me on to greater heights and renewed commitments. It's all gooooood ;-)

    ROCK ON 2010, Diane!!

  • Teresa Romain

    Thanks for your honesty Writergrrl! I didn't want to admit that I started reading this info with an “already heard it/know it” attitude… but the visual of the areas of life and charting a course hit me in the face like it sounds like it did for you. This is what I have NOT been willing to do before… and I'm even still a little resistant now… but, like you, I'm going to take some time to start putting ROCK to work. So thanks for inspiring me!

  • Anonymous

    Wow – this is some amazing stuff! Thank you so much for sharing with us. I have a very busy, intense full time job as a paralegal and am literally just starting my own business on the side. Needless to say, I am going to have to be extremely organized and focused to do this. Your system falls right in with what Sarah and I talked about last week… small steps to get me where I need to be so I don’t get totally overwhelmed. I will start working on this tonight and over the next several days, but it gives me a great roadmap to follow… in ways that are doable for me and I will feel like I’ve accomplished things.

    Like LaConsuelo said, I also tend to get caught up in the “learning,” thinking that I have to know everything before I can actually get started. I see that this will get me away from that and actually doing something so I can stay out of the overwhelm by chunking it down. Thank you again!

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Lori, congrats on taking steps to kickstart your own company on the side. Yes, measured steps and keeping the balance will be key to not burning out, and keepin’ it real with the other aspects of your life. Small steps? Brilliant! ROCK ON, Lori!

  • Teresa Romain

    “When the student is ready, the teacher will appear” is already starting to play in my mind… only I think it's going to be teachers (plural) for me. I think this 30-Day Game is just what I need. Thanks for the visuals, Sherman… I've heard much of what you shared before… but the simple visuals (the Areas of Life and the Charts) nailed me! That's what I've never committed to before (perhaps for fear of failing.) Guess what? That guaranteed I failed. So – even though my day is LOADED with previous commitments, I'm going to begin the ROCK process… I can see how it can really GUIDE me to the results I want… with so much LESS struggle than my previous, unplanned route!

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Writergrrl, I'm sooooo thrilled to read your feedback! I'm excited you didn't toss this article out, that you kept on diggin' in!

    ROCK ON!!

  • tehjess

    Great – thanks Sherman! I appreciate the reply. :) I'll get busy creating my own… :)

  • http://www.myrecipeforlife.com/ daniellemmiller

    Thanks Sherman!:-) I liked how you relied to the productivity piece too…I agree; we get sucked into the things that are not high value for us and everyone’s productivity times are different. I love that you addressed that…I know for me, I like to sit and drink my coffee and go through email in the am….I’m most productive in the evening, so that’s generally when I work on my biggest priorities. It’s really crucial to understand your work patterns and adjust accordingly!

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Hey hey Danielle… here’s to you and working with your rhythms & patterns in 2010! :-)

  • SarahFirestine

    This is amazing. I've always planned on planning, but never really planned and looked back through everything to make sure that I was stying on track. Great resource and inspiring!

  • trina

    hi there – i love all these ideas. what is intimidating to me is the sheer number. we're focusing on 8 action areas, then focusing on 3 actions for each – that's 24 things i have add to my to-do list and worry about in a given day, along w the everyday tasks of work and family..never mind other work projects. and emergencies that might come up? big trouble.

    i've read others' advice in this situation is to focus only on one action area at a time. what do you think about that, sherman? thanks.

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Hey Rose, 3 cheers to 'mini bites'! (Especially after the holidays and loads of good eats, 'mini bites' sound good to me! ;-)

    Thx for the props on the head shot! ;-)

  • Kate

    Hello Sherman

    What I liked about this post was the commitment you had to writing something that was of such high quality and that also had a personal touch – a great piece. In particular I liked the idea of reviewing 2009 before planning for 2010. I have to be honest that in the main it left me cold. Now that could be because it is v late over here and I am past my optimum time and what I have learnt is that I need to put in reading this post at an earlier time in the day where possible. In the main, I guess I rail against detailed planning – it seems very left-brained and I have spent yrs in a corporate environment and don’t want to repeat that in any shape or form. Also using MBTI speak it is the sort of thing that is going to appeal to SJs rather than NTs. Also the life plan areas are v similar to the areas used in coaching when looking at the wheel of life. Why am I saying all this because I would like to find a way to relate to this and get excited about it and do it. Sorry Sherman at the moment I am struggling with it. For example I don’t even have a journal from last year in which to review the year. To give you an example I hate to plan holidays just like to agree a country, get a flight, perhaps 1 hotel night & some high level ideas and let the adventure unfold. It all feels rather like the elephant at the mo but if u have any tips Sherman I will listen to them gratefully.

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Kate, thanks for sharing…

      First things first, if you’re not at your freshest, get some rest. This can wait till the morning. I can relate, even I get stressed processing this type of content when I’m not fresh and alert.

      Secondly, it sounds like you love adventure and spontaneity, yah? And sounds like you want to stay away from anything that reminds you of corporate? LOL. OK, let’s imagine yours is a ‘flying elephant’ …

      Forget the journal.

      Think back through 2009. What events stand out in your mind? Write it down somewhere, who cares…maybe lipstick draw on your mirror! Any happenings that make you smile as you remember them? Great. Lipstick it! Any events make you grimace? OK, lipstick it too.

      Anything you wanna repeat? And anything you’d rather die before you see it repeated again in your life? :-)

      OK, keep this in mind as you *think* through the top 3 life areas that matter the most to you.

      In each of these 3 life areas, what’s the one thing you’d like to share has happened in each area with a girlfriend, while you’re both sipping cocktails, lounging beside a cool, sparkling deep blue pool, while the cabana boy (who’s tanned, ripped and good-looking) is giving you a foot massage! (Why not dream, right?)

      OK, so now you have your Big 3. What now?

      Let the adventure unfold!

      If you like flying by the seat of your Rock & Republics , consider these 3 *things* weekly / monthly, and make strides towards it. If you work on activities that gravitate towards those 3 Big Things, you benefit from:
      (1) Not writing anything down (see, you still don’t need a journal!)

      (2) Moving towards your Big 3 because you’ve kept it to a simple 3 items, instead of whatever bigger #, and mentally remind yourself of them. Anyone can remember 3 things, right?

      (3) Accomplishing your Big 3 at the end of the year (or at least move much closer than not thinking/planning for it at all)!

      Simple, right? Alright, Kate…time to ROCK IT! ;-)

  • momsdaily

    Hi All, this is great information- I am a firm believer that we cannot set goals without knowing first what our guiding values are- I just blogged on this very topic today! This is certainly the time to begin putting goals on paper and nailing down very specific goals. This is truly a process and warrants more than an hour or even a day- great information here, thanks!

  • http://twitter.com/amyhoy Amy Hoy

    Marta, Teresa,

    “I kept thinking that – once my business got to XX point – THEN I'd work on the other areas of my life…”

    You guys… you're certainly not alone here. This is me to a painfully exact T. And while I KNEW it, on some level, only in the past 24 hours has it really sunk in.

    I moved to Austria from the US to be with my husband. I love it here, but I haven't flourished. Because… I would take a German course when our traveling let up, when our business was going smoothly. Ditto for joining groups, taking lessons, and finding friends.

    My Wheel of Life is flatter than a pancake. And to extend your metaphor, Teresa, we're on UNICYCLES, so if our Wheel's flat, we're pretty much SOL!

    No wonder I don't have the energy I need for my business, either!

    (Mmm, pancakes. Something else they don't have in Austria.)

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    ROCK ON, Teresa! Good on ya for making changes, taking steps forward to ROCK it! ;-)

  • Kate

    Thank you for the commitment you have shown Sherman in writing such a high quality post which also has a personal touch to it. I particularly liked the review of 2009 idea as a starting point and the acronymn. However I was unable to engage more with it because of the level of detail it requires one to go into. I am sure it works for SJs (in Myers-Briggs speak) but not for NPs. To give you an example I do not like to plan my holidays beyond deciding on a destination, some overall aims and 1 night in a hotel. I like it to unfold as an adventure. What u suggests sounds daunting and painful for me – I don’t even have a journal for 2009 to review. I have always like the idea of setting intentions, visualising the end game and doing all that I can to move towards that in the belief that if it is in line with my values then the Universe will conspire to bring it about. What you are suggesting seems a bit like the elephant, too big to break down, so if you have any tips for someone like me I would gratefully receive them.

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Ava, U ROCK!! Thanks for connecting with me on Twitter, and now here. I'm so thrilled to know you're going to ROCK OUT LOUD and take it to a whole other “fiesty” level! I hope to see it LIVE IN LIVIN' COLOR!!

    Many blessings of joy, laughter and adventure to you in 2010, Ava!

  • http://twitter.com/amyhoy Amy Hoy

    Hey Kerri, boy have I been there.

    You can't control the universe but you can give it a hint. I don't know what exactly your situation is, but I'm 100% positive that there's something you can do to increase the chances it'll be better this year.

    From my own experience, the #1 thing I ever did for my love life was put myself first. I gave up on looking and focused on me — doing things that made me feel happy and healthy, exercise, time alone, writing and teaching, meeting people, etc., and being the best friend I could absolutely be. I was so much happier.

    I think when I met my now-husband, that's what he noticed first :) (And if it'd been 9 months sooner, I bet I would have ignored him out of my misery!)

    There's always SOMETHING you can do. Write down all the obstacles, let yourself have a good rant about em, and then settle down to knocking em obstacles out.

    Good luck!

  • Nazima Ali

    Sherman,

    Thank you for such a great post. In the past I’ve done something similar to your goal setting plan for the past few years but yours is simpler which I’m looking forward to incorporating. There are times when I feel overwhelmed and a bit fearful and that’s where the procrastination kicks in. I’m looking for all ways to combat that for 2010.

    I really like the reviewing with accomplishments and frustrations as I’ve only ever gone through to check off what I’ve done or not done. I love learning new tricks and trying them out!

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Nazima, here’s to your 2010 and trying out new ‘tricks’ ;-) ROCK ON!

  • http://twitter.com/amyhoy Amy Hoy

    Sherman — FANTASTIC acronym. I have to know… did you decide on ROCK and then figure out how to make it fit? It's awesome.

    I'm a big believer in the use of funny and catchy metaphors and acronyms for teaching serious things. My hat's off to you, sir!

    (Serious note: I'm pretty sure it'll help me actually use the system. Does that sound silly? Maybe it is. But if you can name a thing, and remember it, it seems like the battle can be won!)

  • http://kimnielsen.wordpress.com Kim Nielsen

    Thank you for providing such an organized process, Sherman. I'm naturally a planner, but like many people find that the more specificity I can give myself, the better. This really helps to break down a year and multiple areas of life.

    To me, this confirms that my decision to keep a journal this year was a good one — without really digging into this yet (just thinking through the steps) the “R” seems to be one of the most difficult steps. It can be easy to forget some of the smaller successes (and failures) that you achieve over the course of the year.

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Sally, I'm all about romancing my wife, Sarah (@SarahHu). One thing we've done for many years is a weekly date, and we keep it in our calendars religiously! We've had sitters for years, and alas, our children are at ages where they can take care of themselves while we're out. To keep it real and spicy, we want to try new things for our date nights. Ballroom dancing is definitely a spicy activity for couples <wink>

    RE: Ultra-Planning: I hope all of us don't buy-in to the notion that we can't be flexible or change our plans throughout the year once we've set it in place. The focus coming from a crystal clear vision & planning is brilliant – it gives me an intentionality like no other. For example, I love to cook, especially if its flavorful, spicy and fun! :-) When I look at a recipe, I don't think, “Oh, I don't have oregano and paprika, so I can't cook this dish!”. On the contrary! I would look in my spice cabinet for alternatives and options to KICK IT UP A NOTCH! BAM! U vibin' with me? Roll with it, make changes if you need to get to your end goal ;-)

    RE: New or Existing – I'm from the mindset of “If it ain't broke, don't fix it!” – if your existing “stuff” are in alignment with your vision/end goals, then 'pimp it out'! Overhaul it, make it good. Might be easier than starting from scratch. Next, when you're done pimpin' out your existing 'stuff', then roll out with new 'stuff'.

    Hopefully this 'stuff' helps! ;-)

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    U R wlcm, chrysulawinegar! Yes, I think I'm as smart as a rocket scientist, but I fall far from it :-) But I know I can make complicated stuff simple, LOL!

    Here's to you and your REVIEW of Accomplishments and Frustrations! ROCK ON!

  • triciadycka

    Hi Sherman

    Thank you for a great post. Lovin the K. Going to kickstart my 2010. I have an erase board I am going to implement your weekly idea for action items and next to that a piece of paper that will have my monthly accomplishments that I will be striving for.
    Quick question: Do you feel yourself restricted or find yourself missing other opportunities because of the goals? That is something that is floating around in my head and would love your feedback.
    Thanks again
    Tricia

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Audrey, thanks so much for reading and giving your feedback! And thanks for lovin' it ;-)

    I'm in the mindmapping phase of a product around this. When I do, it'll be available at http://ShermanLive.com. Cheers Audrey!

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Marta, thanks for reading and sharing your feedback!

    The phrase “All Work and No Play Makes Marta A Dull Girl” comes to mind, LOL! <wink> Honestly, I'm thrilled you've been reminded of the other parts of the 'Wheel of Life', and I pray you'll give 'em some love in 2010 ;-)

    ROCK ON!

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Thanks for sharing again, Teresa!

    Personally, my 'definition of success' (in my bio) reveals the reason why I do what I do. And it would be sacrilegious for me to claim as such and not be intentional in my time and efforts to uphold what I 'preach', ya know? Furthermore, my 'emergency flight experience' has heightened my sensitivities to 'what really matters', and “What I would do if this is the only day/week/month/year I have left?”

    Keeping the above in mind, I set out my calendar and priorities accordingly, and it keeps me “True North” and moving in the right direction ;-)

    Hope this helps!

  • http://www.facebook.com/pages/Caring-Creates-/228986840568 Sally G.

    Thank you Sherman. I really appreciate the time you've invested in me. Now, I must step up – and buckle down (actually, I like your thinking better – I'm going to step up and Pimp It Out)!

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    “I KNEW IT, Shelley!”

    hehe, yes, you can say it! ;-)

  • meganmatthieson

    That was awesome. I was able to plan out the entire year with ease. The only area which was difficult for me was Personal. In this exercise I REALLY come up against things that may not be good for me, but I'm unwilling to commit to a certain date to LET GO. So…I'm not being overly hard on myself…but will use this area to try to Loosen Up. Also…Don't you think this exercise is a super quick start to feeling your power? The trick is deciding WHAT you want. Thank you! Megan

  • http://twitter.com/CherryWoodburn Cherry Woodburn

    Well I have some work to do. Looking back definitely highlighted trends, nothing surprising yet seeing it in print makes real. Going to set up excel sheet now and do more planning than I've ever done. I related to what Ava Diamond said and since I want things to be different in 2010, I'll have to operate differently. Thanks for your time and interest. Cherry

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  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Kerri, thanks for sharing your feedback and asking this question.

    I looooove that quote, just gives me goosebumps!

    First off, like Stephen Covey said in one of his books and in one of his 'habits', ONLY work in your Sphere of Control (I'm paraphrasing, unsure if that's the term he used). Your LOVE LIFE is part of your “Romance” hub in your 'Wheel of Life', and should be within your 'control'.

    Naturally, working on what you 'CAN' control is key. I may be preaching to the choir, but I'll take a stab at it, as I don't know what is 'common sense' and what isn't… here goes…

    Everything from:

    - Fitness & health (one needs to be fit to keep up with Cupid, no?)

    - Personal well-being (hair care, skin care, teeth, wardrobe, perfume etc)

    - Your values (value statements) crystalized so you know what you stand for and what you won't stand for. (The phrase, “If you don't stand for something, you'll fall for anything” applies here)

    - Critical or important characteristics, values, personality, habits, desires, choices you seek from your future significant other (aka 'make a list, baby!' ;-)

    - Choosing to live life in your areas of passion (and being in 'community' with like-minded peeps who share your passion). This will be an environment where you may find prospective dating connections!

    - And if whoever's reading this is 'boring', then get 'un-boring'! Try new things, new adventures, new foods, new wardrobe, new skills, anything new to get you outta your box. The act of trying new things will be new, and this could put you in an environment where you'll meet new people and who knows, even your next date! ;-)

    Kerri, you vibin' with me? All the above are within your control. You make your choices and actions, and that's what you have full autonomy and control with.

    I know some have found love connections via dating websites, ie my sister and brother-in-law through a popular dating site, but if I was ever in a position of having to date again (“knock on wood!”), I would passionately live life, and be in groups and communities where I'm being myself, having fun, involved in activities that recharge me. When you're having fun, others are drawn to you. And … well, you know how it goes from there ;-)

    Hope this helps, Kerri!

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Brilliant, Teresa! ROCK ON!! Here's to you and your new process!

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Sarah, one bite at a time. One step at a time. Do just one thing today, just one thing, towards R.O.C.K. Commit to yourself and 'us' that you will do one thing today. Then one thing tomorrow. Then one thing the next day. Before you know it, you will have ROCKed it out ;-)

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Trina, I'd kick myself if I thought I added more stuff to your plate via this post. Consider this: R.O.C.K.ing it will give your 'life', 'day-to-day', '2010', whatever else PURPOSE.

    Remember, how do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time. And do you buy everything at the grocery store? Nope, just what you need, right?

    In the same vein, maybe select 3 life areas you want to fine-tune and plan for 2010.

    Then, when you're having dinner with family and friends in December 2010, what would you like to share has happened in those 3 areas in 2010.

    Now, imagine having lunch with a girlfriend in March 2010. In those 3 areas, what 1 thing would you like to share has happened by March this year?

    OK, just consider what's the 1 thing you should complete this month, January, to get you closer to your March victory?

    That's only 3 items you need to focus on completing in January!

    Possible? Very, right?

    Can you do it, amidst the many 'spinning plates' you spin? Yes you can.

    Will you do it? That I cannot answer. Only you know.

    Whaddya say, Trina? One bite? :-)

  • christinelivingston

    Great to be part of this community! I'm resonating with so many of the comments here. I want 201o to rock for me and I feel in very good company in trying to achieve that.

    I don't lack the ability to visualise and plan, but I've historically been less good on follow through. I've committed to a process of weekly and monthly review for myself this year and so far so good. The other thing I struggle with is productivity. I seem to have SO many things that need done that my most important goals don't get the attention I'd really like to give them. Any advice on this, Sherman, would be gratefully received.

    Thanks so much for a really useful and thorough post.

  • marvelousmartha

    Hi Sherman! Thanks for taking your time to give back to us in a big way. I really enjoyed this post and am looking forward to working on R.O.C.K.ing out my goals and manifesting my genius. I especially liked the broad focus and the narrow focus of a year down to 30 days. I'm going to break it down even more and have one activity for about each 10 days! Here's to the first successful month of charting and thanks again for the kickstart in the rear!

  • http://twitter.com/mmangen Michelle Mangen

    Oh I haven't heard of ROCK before! I have printed this post and it appears I have a lot of work to do yet!

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Thanks for sharing, Amelia! You are right, having goals without a clear vision or direction is like setting pit-stops on the map or GPS unit, but not knowing your destination. Could be fun if you're up for a joy ride, but could be frustrating if you're trying to get somewhere ;-)

    When my MIL, Ann Griffiths, coached me through crystalizing my values, it was like the heavens parted and the angels sang in 7-part harmony!! It's just like the popular song “I Can See Clearly Now” by Johnny Nash…

    I can see clearly now, the rain is gone,
    I can see all obstacles in my way
    Gone are the dark clouds that had me blind
    It's gonna be a bright (bright), bright (bright)
    Sun-Shiny day.

    Here's to you and your many blessings in 2010!

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Amy, thanks for your feedback!

    Hmm, what came first, the chicken or the egg? LOL!

    Hmm, I'm caught between a “ROCK and a hard place” coming up with an answer… <wink>

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Kim, you are welcome! Glad this will be of value to you!

    The “R” can be a slower process, doesn't have to be though, if one has written it down throughout the year. But oh so rewarding! I loooove turning back the pages of time and revealing victories and naturally, frustrations of the year. Gives me 'juice' to be and do better in the new year!

    ROCK ON!!

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Tricia, good on ya for kickin' it up on your board!

    Frankly, no.

    Why?

    Because I know I can change my plans if it doesn't work, or I see another route to get to my destination – easier, faster, fun-ner! ;-)

    And, its just a guide. I map it, it doesn't map me. I'm the one with the binoculars atop the tallest tree, in my Tarzan outfit <wink>, yelling “Over there!”…then swinging from the vines to get to “Jane” ;-)

    Hope my 'monkey-ing' around helps with your question ;-)

  • http://themarketingmark.blogspot.com MarkSherrick

    awesome leadoff guest post for the 30 days Sherman! Love how you adapted the process into a great and easily remembered acronym. Your whole system is easily adaptable for shorter or longer periods of time as well, because some things take more or less than a year. Cant wait to be able to tie ROCK into everything else we learn this month! Thanks so much for doing this for/with us.

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Thx Mark! Apprc8 the props on this post & the acronym ;-) True, re: using R.O.C.K. for short/long periods. ROCK ON!

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Megan, congrats on R.O.C.K.ing it!

    Do you mean “Personal Growth”? Yes, loosening up is good. Let's define it some more. What can U tangibly set in a S.M.A.R.T. (specific, measurable, attainable, realistic and timely) way that will help you loosen up? Could be hiking, cooking, sleeping, reading, exercising, walking, etc etc)

    And re: Letting Go…

    What is the pain and worst thing that can/will happen if you don't let go (assuming its not good for you)? What other areas of your life will be negatively impacted if you don't let go? What impact will it have on you, your health, mental well-being, wealth, spirit, etc if you don't let go?

    And what are the positive results, joy, blessings you'll receive if you DO let go? What other opportunities can/will you invite into your life if you DO let go? What impact will it have on you, your health, mental well-being, wealth, spirit, etc if you DO let go?

    Hopefully this visualization will help you commit to making a decision, embrace it, and ROCK OUT with your new direction!

  • http://www.care2.com/causes/trailblazers/ Sue Anne Reed

    Sherman – What a great post and lots to think about and put into action. I’ve never been a huge goal planner and strategic thinker. I realized sometime last year that this was a major flaw. There was a great webinar from @Marketingprofs about strategic planning. It was mostly related to setting online goals and ROI, but it also can be applied to lots of other things too.

    For me, personally, I currently feel a bit stuck. I’m looking for a new job (while still working at my non-profit), and finding that new job is a priority. Because I’m being somewhat flexible with location, goal planning for the rest of my life in 2010 seems a bit in limbo. My main priorities are a) getting a new job and b) moving to a new apartment *somewhere*.

    I do love your 90-day and 30-day charting and breaking things down into doable tasks.

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Good evening, Sue…thanks for sharing your feedback! Apprc8 ya reading & diggin’ the charting and ‘bite-sized’ tasking :-)
      RE: your situation…R.O.C.K. is will fit hand in glove with what U R hoping to accomplish. Why?
      (1) You can still plan for success in your role at the non-profit,
      (2) You can project the type of new job, success and satisfaction you will receive from this new to-be-found job (regardless of what type of job it is),
      (3) You can still plan for your other Life Areas, even if you don’t know where you’ll be living in 3-6 months – because your life still continues regardless, unless its intrinsically tied to your current locale. U know what I mean?

      Work through the process, assuming you’ll find the new job in your current city. You are the R.O.C.K.er, and you can change your plans as you go to fit your new environment, not the other way around where you get stuck in a box, ya know? Just like in “Dirty Dancing” when Johnny says, “No one puts Baby in a corner!” :-) Don’t let your plans put U in a corner, plan it, and feel free to ‘dance’, or ROCK IT OUT! ;-)

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Good on ya, Cherry! Here's to you keepin' it real and a different reality for you in 2010!

    Cheers!!

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    U R wlcm! ROCK ON, Martha! :-)

  • http://www.thepromotionguy.com/ Scott Toomey

    Sherman – I love your approach…R.O.C.K.ing. As someone who has always set goals, and who has lost focus of goals, I really like this. It gives me a straight forward simplistic way to set goals…breaking them down to the smallest part.

    I know you mentioned without discussing and talking about your goals…they sort of just fell in place. What are your thoughts on obtaining an accountability partner for these goals? Do you think it would help to stay laser focused on your goals and how would you go about selecting and informing your accountability partner?

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Coming from a planner and goal-setter, what you shared is a great compliment, thanks! Acct Partner/s is a brilliant concept. Find a person with affinity, similar passions and vision for charting their life and moving forward. Preferably someone U know and have history, or who has the guts to call “b*llsh*t” when U start dishing it :-) ROCK ON!

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Thanks for your feedback, Michelle! Thanks for printing it, helps alot I'm sure of that!

    Consider doing just *one* thing. Just *one* thing to move you forward, k?

    ROCK ON!

  • triciadycka

    Hi Christine

    I completely understand where you are coming from. Today I really got stuck in information overload. Ended up answering emails and doing other stuff that is not quite as productive as I would have liked. It is almost 4pm and I am starting to create and write now. I think it is about finding more of a blance and being present with what is in front of us.

    So excited to be here as well and hope you are doing well

  • triciadycka

    Hi Sherman
    Thanks for the reply. Really enjoyed the visual too. Appreciate all the comments.
    Got stuck in my head on all this goal stuff. Time to swing to another vine and get out the binoculars. :) WOO HOO
    Here is to 2010 may we all Rock.

  • Anonymous

    Wonderful! I have felt like I have lost my path since marrying, giving birth, pursuing my career, etc…What a great way to get back on track, get the priorities straight and make the relationships click again. The plan is easy – (yet, I can see how I could make it hard on myself)! Just making myself accountable – doing the planning, writing it all down…asking myself the question – What do I want to say I accomplished in 2010? Is is inspiring and do-able. I am starting to believe that 2010 will be the year that Jenn finds herself again!

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Congrats Jenn! Wlcm back on your own path…yes, K.I.S.S., ya know? Don’t overcomplicate it. It’s definitely do-able. Like Rob Schneider in ‘The Waterboy’ says, “YOU CAN DEW EEEEEET!”

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Thanks for your feedback, Christine!

    RE: Productivity: If you can scan the comments I've shared below on “3 BIG ROCKS” and “3 MITs”, it'll help!

    RE: Follow through: Play a game with yourself. A pain/pleasure game.
    - If you follow through, you get “pleasure”, whatever that may be, something fun naturally ie. checking up on Twitter, Facebook, tennis, shopping etc.
    - If you don't, you get “pain”, what you hate doing, ie pushups, situps etc.
    OR…
    Get a friend to be your daily accountable partner. Then play the pain/pleasure game.
    - If you followed through with your 3 MITs today, you get a “reward” or “prize” – whatever that is…
    - If you didn't, you owe your accountability partner something, ie. money, favor, something that will be an 'ouch!'

    Hope this helps! ;-)

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Tricia, I find opening emails and social media to be a time-suck first thing in the AM.

    Consider blocking your day according to your rhythms. If you write like a fiend in the AM, then write for an hour before opening your email (as a reward) :-)

    If you find my description of the “3 Big Rocks” and “3 MITs” below, it can help too! ;-)

  • Anonymous

    What great information. So much power in the question “What do you want to say you have accomplished in 2010?” That speaks volumes to me. Never have I made myself personally accountable for my own successes and failures, just sort of took the praise and the hits and they happened. I am looking forward to reviewing, planning, writing it down to make it real, and then living it. The economy has hit my industry hard, but I am not going to blame any failures in 2010 on that – it is too easy. In the 4 years since my child was born, my husband and I have not invested in each other as we should – again, so easy to change just by planning and it is real when you write it. Thank you for providing a way to map – a way for action…a way to ROCK!

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Jenn, GOOD ON YA!! Do keep in touch to let me know how you’re keeping yourself accountable to your own wins and losses, k? Esp how you’re doing INVESTING BACK into your relationship with your MAN! You won’t regret investing in your relationship/marriage, it pays wonderful dividends! ROCK ON!!

  • meganmatthieson

    Thank you Sherman! I will read that several times. :) )

  • trina

    great response, sherman. thanks for the ideas!

  • Mike Korner

    Hi Sherman! Hi Sarah!

    Good exercise. Thank you. I've been doing a similar exercise for a few years now but I picked up a couple of ideas using this approach.

    Things I liked:
    - I really hadn't stopped and reviewed 2009; I just sort of moved into 2010. Thanks for making me stop and formally think about it.
    - When you asked the “At the end of 2010, what would you realistically like to say has happened?” question in paragraph 1, I stopped there and wrote down my general (not by life area) wishes for 2010. Listing my general wishes for this year before listing my accomplishments from last year just felt better than the usual way.
    - In paragraph 2, I like how you said, “for you you to be happy with”. Making a list of things I have to accomplish to be happy with the year gets different results that if make a list of my goals for the year. Just further proof that semantics are important :)
    - Thanks for the great quote from Jim Rohn!
    - Thanks for the term “Life Area”. I've always just sort of thought of these as the parts of my life that are very important to me. “Life Area” is certainly a lot easier to say :)

    Observations/thoughts:
    - The most powerful improvement I've made in my life in the area of effectiveness came from implementing the planning exercise weekly. I did this several years ago after reading Steven Covey's 7 Habits of Highly Effective People. His “First Things First” chapter is where I first encountered the “big rocks” story. To help me stay focused, I made a one page weekly planner that has a section for each of my life areas. I've tried several variations of formatting but the key is that the weekly planner has to fit on exactly one side of one piece of paper. Each Sunday I print an empty planner and note my big rocks (important action items) for the week. I print it because it forces me to unplug for a while. Full disclosure: I don't make a new sheet EVERY week. Sometimes my current sheet is good enough for an extra week or two. I cross things off when done, and write things in that need added. When it gets too messy, I print and start fresh. The point is that it is a one-page map for what I want to accomplish. I put my printed planner in one of those yellow plastic protectors. This makes it stand out visually amongst all of the other things I encounter during the week. When I see the planner, I almost always stop and peek at it to be sure I'm making the progress I envisioned during my weekly review. As with the other intervals you mentioned, the weekly plan only works if you schedule the related action items.
    - What do the cloud symbols mean on your chart?

    Sherman – thanks!
    Sarah – bring on day 3! (Just tell day 6 to wait its turn. I think it was just excited :)

  • michaelleiter

    Thanks for the charts and your reflections on the system, Sherman.
    I have a few bits filled in so far, and a lot more to contemplate.
    The eating the elephant thing.
    Michael

  • Anonymous

    Whew! What a day!! I have a sparkling new Facebook Group for you all to connect to each other in. You can do that here if you would like: http://www.facebook.com/#/group.php?v=wall&gid=246014862902.

    And I can tell you all liked my friend Sherman just a little bit. :-) Told you I had pretty amazing friends! And now my amazing tribe is showing off how wonderful they are to the world. SO proud of YOU!!!

  • Writergrrl

    Wouldn't dream of tossing out wisdom just because I'm not sure how it's helping (in fact, that is often how I know I'm on the right track)!! You were able to start with some of my all-time-fave quotes/concepts and then catch me totally off guard with a NEW way to harness all of the inspiration into purposeful action. Like I said, pretty much exactly what I've been needing!! BTW, your follow up comments on this thread have really enriched the article. Now I'm off to start R.O.C.K.in' my Chart!! ;-)

  • Writergrrl

    Glad I wasn't the only one who started out feeling too sure of “what I know” just to be set up to be knocked off my feet with something that I have ABSOLUTELY needed. I know what you mean about feeling resistant – for me that often signals something is really important – so now I am ready to buckle down and move through the discomfort to make 2010 rock with serious success!! Glad to be on the journey with you, Teresa!

  • Anonymous

    Love SMART action plans! This is a strategy we use at work with coaching and any and all action plans…..brilliant feedback :)

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Hey Jaye…that’s SMART! ;-)

  • Anonymous

    Sherman,

    Thanks so much. For years I’ve thought I was planning, as someone else said, just floated along. The action steps were missing. This will help me get to where I want to be at the end of 2010.

    - Margaret

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Right on, Margaret! Well, you could “Float like a butterfly, sting like a bee”, no? :-) Hopefully this R.O.C.K.ing plan will be “bee” your nectar to a sweeeeeeet year ahead!

  • kristieschwanebeck

    I have never been a fan of goal setting. I remember how painful it was to do this in elementary school, at which point, I wrote off the the entire process and value of goal setting. In large part, it was due to not being taught how to implement and follow through with these goals. I would find myself being extremely disappointed and hard on myself. What happened? I became a victim to this and thereby immobilized. This entire post has challenged that and I see a way, now, to be able to effectively set goals and be able to set a course of action to ensure that I reach those goals. Thank you Mr. Hu, for this insightful and propelling post. I feel completely re-energized into making sure I ROCK 2010. Thank you Sarah, for bringing Mr. Hu onto my horizon.

  • Anonymous

    Love the ROCKING OUT acronym, Sherman! Setting goals and creating that success energetically is an amazing way to let your success unfold…sometimes almost by magic!

  • http://momeomagazine.com/ Carla Young

    Love the ROCKING OUT acronym, Sherman! Setting goals and creating that success energetically is an amazing way to let your success unfold…sometimes almost by magic!

    • http://twitter.com/lipdesign Lori Paquette

      Carla, I love how you use the term “energetically” here. So true.

      • http://momeomagazine.com/ Carla Young

        It’s so true…amazing things happen when you shift your focus to planting seeds!

        (That’s one of my momentum secrets – planting seeds Monday…sometimes even Sunday and watching them bloom through the week)!

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Carla, thanks bella! WAY TO ROCK OUT on Day 3!! W00T!! Knew U’d dig the acronym ;-)

  • http://www.reignitingromance.com/ Rachel Miller

    Planning my year is actually one of my 2010 goals.

    I, like Teresa (Hi, Teresa! Great to see a familiar face here), thought I'd heard most of this before but have been resistant to actually doing it. Sherman, I love your approach. My favorite part is question #3 What would I like to tell friends happened this year? The other part that really resonated, also like Teresa and many others, was the “Life” planning instead of just business planning. I'm very excited to start on this tonight!

    Thanks for the great strategies!

  • http://twitter.com/lipdesign Lori Paquette

    Thank YOU, Sherman!!! Wow! Wow! Wow! As a visual person, I love charts … this totally puts the “to do” list to shame (I lose them and all the Post It notes sticking to walls, mirrors and computers in my house). This is like a “Life Bagua”! Exactly what I need to incorporate as a planning tool since I have flown by the seat of my pants for too long and have avoided planning like the plague. Your breaking it down by 1 year, 90 day quarterly and 30 days makes it more manageable and less overwhelming. This is a planning tool I can relate to. I’m A.D.D. and overwhelm easily. R.O.C.K. on!

    I’ve got lots of work to do on this. My #1 “action plan” for 2010 (not resolution) is to clean and organize my office because I can’t start anything until I control the chaos that has taken over in there. Had a vision of a blackboard wall w/ magnetic paint underneath it to house all my ideas and plans … like my R.O.C.K. charts. I love that you address Life goals in addition to Business goals. I’m slapping my hand to my forehead like so many others here today going “Doh! Yeah, life … ”

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Hiya LP, thanks for sharing! I’m thrilled you shared so much with such focus, considering your ADD! ROTFLMAO :-)

      Good on ya for committing to office clean+organize, helps a bunch! Plus, working on our whole life makes us better, well-rounded, healthier, sexier and wealthier!! ;-)

  • http://twitter.com/sjcorum Stephanie Corum

    Yes, in the past I've been notorious for planning my own thing as far as business goes (not in the personal life). He goes one way, I go another. Now that we both are self-employed and work out of the house, it needs to operate differently. Getting started is always the hard part, but I can see the end result is where we want to be.

  • http://twitter.com/SunshineBoat Sunshine Boatright

    OMGosh! I feel like I want to say where have you been & why hasn’t someone told me about you sooner!

    I have recently had someone comment (several someone’s actually) that because of my life/personality/ADD I’m not a planner & some have gone so far as to say I should give up the ghost on it. And while I do love spontaneity with some things, I know that part of my biz frustrations are from not being able to do a workable plan. This post is definitely something that gives me what I need (big picture, broken down to smaller picture, broken down to smaller elements). It’s funny, I can do it for my kids (we homeschool as well) and even do it for my one son (who has autism), but hadn’t “seen” a way to do it for myself.

    Going to print this out NOW, before I go to bed, so something else doesn’t divert me later. THANK YOU for breaking it down like you did. You have absolutely NO IDEA just how crucial this is to what I’ve been needing RIGHT now. I’ve been in a state for the past few days where I felt like I may have to give up because I just couldn’t get it broken down & the overwhelm was crushing me. So thank you, for a simple, broken down, workable plan that has now given me more hope than you can imagine. :)

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      I’ve been hangin’ out here all this while, Sunshine! ;-) Weird how we can do for others so effectively, yet for ourselves we (sometimes) get stuck, no? (Talking out loud to myself…) “Have to consider an out-of-body experience to make this work!” :-)

      Good on ya for printing this. Great idea! Thrilled U find great value in this R.O.C.K.ing plan! Here’s to many blessings of HOPE for you and your journey in 2010! ;-)

  • sarahrobinson

    Look at ya'll getting all busy with it today!!! Proud of you taking action, connecting with Sherman and each other. THAT's what game-changers do! Promise to weigh in a bit tonight, though by the looks of things you are doing great without me!!

    See you after the Young Turk goes to bed!
    Sarah

  • http://www.momsdailyretreat.com/ Amelia

    Fantastic- love it! I had a similar experience- I think just making certain connections between goals and values help me to identify why I was not achieving certain goals and really forced me to get honest about some things.
    Here's to you and a happy and fulfilling 2010!

  • Teresa Romain

    Ditto (about being on the journey with you)! I'm now starting to recognize resistance as a signal for me to REALLY pay attention!

  • Teresa Romain

    Hey Sherman! LOVE your cooking analogy because that's the way I cook! I use recipes as a starting point for creativity and inspiration, not something to follow rigidly… never thought (until now) of using a plan (for my business and life) with that same energy! That shifts my whole energy and relationship with my plan! Love it!

  • Teresa Romain

    Hi Amy! Lovin the connection.. and the changes we're all taking on. Something you wrote got me thinking.. thought I'd share. I wonder if we really are on unicycles or if we just think we are? I'm clear – it's MY “wheel” and MY Life… but I wonder if part of my problem has been thinking I'm all alone, it's up to me … even now I (by myself) have to get my wheel inflated again! Don't know if I'm saying this clearly… but something about you saying we're on a Unicycle struck me. Thanks for sharing it!

  • Teresa Romain

    Thanks again Sherman! Now's when the rubber starts meeting the road… better start ROCKin!

  • Teresa Romain

    Hey Rachel! Great to see you ROCK here too!!! Can't wait to hear what you come up with for your answer to Question #3!

  • http://twitter.com/JoyFull_deb Deb Bruser

    WOW!!
    Sherman, first I'd like to thank your MIL for “showing YOU the way”…so that YOU could share your amazing R.O.C.K. program with this group!! Second, I've got to tell Sarah that I am lovin' her music selections and how much it adds to the message!

    OK…now some comments regarding planning & goals. HA!! I haven't planned anything in the past 10 years!! I moved back to Louisiana to be a caregiver for my mom who was diagnosed with 4 or 5 immune system disorders. Whew, 5 1/2 yrs. of 24/7 care and taking care of household and my dad, too. Needless to say, Family/Home had top priority and with the little energy I had left, well, you get the picture…I just crashed/slept. All the other areas of my life were basically non-existent. There were 2 other tragedies in our family over the next two years. Again! I was called upon to be caregiver and still not taking care of ME. I am also a volunteer (helping others) and in a HUGE way! The last part of 2009 I crashed!! No balance at all…no goals to get past this big crash…until NOW!! That's why I'm here!

    All of that being said, I have MUCH to think about….and I'll share that when I saw the Romance category I just laughed out loud. I haven't thought about Romance in quite some time.

    I am loving all the fabulous comments/sharing that is going on….a wonder-FULL group, Sarah!!! Kudos to YOU!!
    I'm thinking that I have a REALLY big elephant to eat and digest…and I'll do it by taking small bites and smiling :-)

    Thanks again….YOU ROCK!!!

  • lorilatimer

    Wow – this is some amazing stuff! Thank you so much for sharing with us. I have a very busy, intense full time job as a paralegal and am literally just starting my own business on the side. Needless to say, I am going to have to be extremely organized and focused to do this. Your system falls right in with what Sarah and I talked about last week… small steps to get me where I need to be so I don't get totally overwhelmed. I will start working on this tonight and over the next several days, but it gives me a great roadmap to follow… in ways that are doable for me and I will feel like I've accomplished things.

    Like LaConsuelo said, I also tend to get caught up in the “learning,” thinking that I have to know everything before I can actually get started. I see that this will get me away from that and actually doing something so I can stay out of the overwhelm by chunking it down. Thank you again!

  • daniellemiller

    Thanks Sherman!:-) I liked how you relied to the productivity piece too…I agree; we get sucked into the things that are not high value for us and everyone's productivity times are different. I love that you addressed that…I know for me, I like to sit and drink my coffee and go through email in the am….I'm most productive in the evening, so that's generally when I work on my biggest priorities. It's really crucial to understand your work patterns and adjust accordingly!

  • http://kevinvandever.com/ Kevin Vandever

    Hi Sherman,

    Thanks for sharing this. It is exactly what I need as I have never been one to write down goals or plan out a year as you’ve laid out. I certainly have goals and I want to change and grow, but I just don’t typically work in such an organized manner. This will be an excellent exercise for me to tackle.

    Thanks again,

    Kevin.

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Right on, Kevin! Here’s to your success in ROCKing out 2010! ;-)

  • http://marjorymejia.com/ Marjory

    Hi Sherman, thanks for sharing this information. Oftentimes, we just do things on default mode but growing means become aware of the patterns. I love the process of reviewing the past year to learn from things that did or didn’t work.
    I like this step by step visioning journey, it makes the whole thing less intimidating. When one finally commits oneself, all kind of heavenly and earthy forces come to move us forward on our path.
    Let’s rock it!!

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Hiya Marjory, U R wlcm! The REVIEW is one of my favorite practices and I look forward to it every year ;-) Nowadays, when I detail events and “stuff” in my Moleskine, I write it with the thought/vision that I’m going to go through this at year end, so I try to make it make sense for later ;-) Here’s to your success in your journey in 2010!

  • Kate

    Hello Sherman

    What I liked about this post was the commitment you had to writing something that was of such high quality and that also had a personal touch – a great piece. In particular I liked the idea of reviewing 2009 before planning for 2010. I have to be honest that in the main it left me cold. Now that could be because it is v late over here and I am past my optimum time and what I have learnt is that I need to put in reading this post at an earlier time in the day where possible. In the main, I guess I rail against detailed planning – it seems very left-brained and I have spent yrs in a corporate environment and don't want to repeat that in any shape or form. Also using MBTI speak it is the sort of thing that is going to appeal to SJs rather than NTs. Also the life plan areas are v similar to the areas used in coaching when looking at the wheel of life. Why am I saying all this because I would like to find a way to relate to this and get excited about it and do it. Sorry Sherman at the moment I am struggling with it. For example I don't even have a journal from last year in which to review the year. To give you an example I hate to plan holidays just like to agree a country, get a flight, perhaps 1 hotel night & some high level ideas and let the adventure unfold. It all feels rather like the elephant at the mo but if u have any tips Sherman I will listen to them gratefully.

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Mike, thanks so much for your wonderful feedback! Appreciate all you shared :-)

    RE: 7 habits – yes, I remember reading SC's book way back when and applying Week At A Glance planning from then on, along with the Big Rocks. My Big Rocks fell off the cliff, and returned when I read Babauta's Zen To Done :-)

    RE: Cloud Symbols: They represent anything U want it to :-) Just a symbol, maybe I can make up a meaning, like 'reach for the clouds' or something :-)

    ROCK ON!

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Hi Michael, good for U for ROCKing it out!! And the elephant bit? Yes, try soya sauce with it, goes down much easier! ;-)

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Kristie, WOW! Thanks for sharing! U've just reminded me once again one of the most important reasons why I share the way I share, and that's to add value to others! I'm thrilled to be a small catalyst for you to re-consider planning, and more importantly, share resources for you to be effective at it, without feeling the frustration of immobilization!

    ROCK ON, Kristie!! Many blessings on your 2010 journey! :-)

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Good on ya for starting tonight, Rachel!

    Me too! I love parties, especially when there's great friends, delicious food, yummy drinks, and last but not least, energizing conversations!

    ROCK ON!!

  • Kate

    Thank you for the commitment you have shown Sherman in writing such a high quality post which also has a personal touch to it. I particularly liked the review of 2009 idea as a starting point and the acronymn. However I was unable to engage more with it because of the level of detail it requires one to go into. I am sure it works for SJs (in Myers-Briggs speak) but not for NPs. To give you an example I do not like to plan my holidays beyond deciding on a destination, some overall aims and 1 night in a hotel. I like it to unfold as an adventure. What u suggests sounds daunting and painful for me – I don't even have a journal for 2009 to review. I have always like the idea of setting intentions, visualising the end game and doing all that I can to move towards that in the belief that if it is in line with my values then the Universe will conspire to bring it about. What you are suggesting seems a bit like the elephant, too big to break down, so if you have any tips for someone like me I would gratefully receive them.

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Thanks Sarah, you have a vibrant tribe/posse here! W00T!! :-)

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Deb, thanks soooo much for sharing! You've given so much of yourself, time to refuel and recharge, eh? And yes, that includes Romance too <wink>

    Regarding that BIG elephant… yes, eating it in small bites is great for digestion ;-)

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Lori, congrats on taking steps to kickstart your own company on the side. Yes, measured steps and keeping the balance will be key to not burning out, and keepin' it real with the other aspects of your life. Small steps? Brilliant! ROCK ON, Lori!

  • Nazima Ali

    Sherman,

    Thank you for such a great post. In the past I've done something similar to your goal setting plan for the past few years but yours is simpler which I'm looking forward to incorporating. There are times when I feel overwhelmed and a bit fearful and that's where the procrastination kicks in. I'm looking for all ways to combat that for 2010.

    I really like the reviewing with accomplishments and frustrations as I've only ever gone through to check off what I've done or not done. I love learning new tricks and trying them out!

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Hey hey Danielle… here's to you and working with your rhythms & patterns in 2010! :-)

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Kate, thanks for sharing…

    First things first, if you're not at your freshest, get some rest. This can wait till the morning. I can relate, even I get stressed processing this type of content when I'm not fresh and alert.

    Secondly, it sounds like you love adventure and spontaneity, yah? And sounds like you want to stay away from anything that reminds you of corporate? LOL. OK, let's imagine yours is a 'flying elephant' <wink> …

    Forget the journal.

    Think back through 2009. What events stand out in your mind? Write it down somewhere, who cares…maybe lipstick draw on your mirror! Any happenings that make you smile as you remember them? Great. Lipstick it! Any events make you grimace? OK, lipstick it too.

    Anything you wanna repeat? And anything you'd rather die before you see it repeated again in your life? :-)

    OK, keep this in mind as you *think* through the top 3 life areas that matter the most to you.

    In each of these 3 life areas, what's the one thing you'd like to share has happened in each area with a girlfriend, while you're both sipping cocktails, lounging beside a cool, sparkling deep blue pool, while the cabana boy (who's tanned, ripped and good-looking) is giving you a foot massage! (Why not dream, right?)

    OK, so now you have your Big 3. What now?

    Let the adventure unfold!

    If you like flying by the seat of your Rock & Republics <wink>, consider these 3 *things* weekly / monthly, and make strides towards it. If you work on activities that gravitate towards those 3 Big Things, you benefit from:
    (1) Not writing anything down (see, you still don't need a journal!)

    (2) Moving towards your Big 3 because you've kept it to a simple 3 items, instead of whatever bigger #, and mentally remind yourself of them. Anyone can remember 3 things, right?

    (3) Accomplishing your Big 3 at the end of the year (or at least move much closer than not thinking/planning for it at all)!

    Simple, right? Alright, Kate…time to ROCK IT! ;-)

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Nazima, here's to your 2010 and trying out new 'tricks' ;-) ROCK ON!

  • kristieschwanebeck

    Hi Kerri and Sherman,

    Kerri I know your pain. I have been a single mother for three years and its getting a little old. I too have done the “search” but anyone that I have seen that seems worth my time, does not view me with the same mindset.

    Sherman: I understand the concept and to be honest I think that if I take this year to fill it with the many things on my list (getting my MA degree which means a thesis, focussing on a new 7 year long research project I was invited to be a part of, and the 3-5 buisnesses I've got under my belt, plus my children and my job, I am hopeful that I will have enough on my plate to avoid falling into the looking trap. What I really appreciated here Sherman was to put yourself into a place where you have fun. That thought had not struck me before. Thanks for the tip.

  • Anonymous

    Hi Sherman,

    Upon reading this post, my first reaction was “oh noooooo, not planning!” I can’t do this. My job is to plan. As a project manager it’s crucial that I plan every step of a project that I work on to stay on time, budget and within scope. I do an excellent job at this – in my professional life.

    Planning in my personal life is a different story. I’m a mom of a wonderful, energetic, six year-old. Its easy to plan her life… Play-dates, lunch, school, extra-curricular activities, etc. That stuff is a no-brainer. Yet, when it comes to me I hit major roadblocks. My mind goes completely blank and when I saw this post I was terrified.

    I read it several times today and kept coming back to it. Finally I sat down and went through the exercise. Boy, was it an eye-opener. I realized that I had accomplishments that I didn’t even think that I had when I begun the exercise. I also had frustrations that I had just accepted as being “life”.

    I’m not done with all the steps yet, but feel really good about where I am. I’m excited to get through the last two steps. I believe this will be a wonderful tool as I move through the year.

    Thank you Sherman, this was a good first step in moving me out of my comfort zone.

    ~Lisa

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Lisa, thanks for sharing your thoughts on this, especially from a pro Project Manager! ;-) Isn’t it odd we have phrases like “The cobbler’s children have no shoes” and designer’s sites that aren’t given as much TLC as their clients’ ;-)

      Thanks for taking the time to return repeatedly to this post and breaking through with working on the exercises for yourself!

      What thrilled me is how you uncovered other accomplishments previously forgotten!! BRILLIANT!! And yes, let’s not forget the learning lessons from “life” or frustrations too!

      Lisa, thanks soooo much for sharing your victory with me/us. I’m excited you’re excited and here’s to you moving further out of your comfort zone and a ROCKin’ 2010!! W00T!!

  • http://themarketingmark.blogspot.com MarkSherrick

    awesome leadoff guest post for the 30 days Sherman! Love how you adapted the process into a great and easily remembered acronym. Your whole system is easily adaptable for shorter or longer periods of time as well, because some things take more or less than a year. Cant wait to be able to tie ROCK into everything else we learn this month! Thanks so much for doing this for/with us.

  • sue_anne

    Sherman – What a great post and lots to think about and put into action. I've never been a huge goal planner and strategic thinker. I realized sometime last year that this was a major flaw. There was a great webinar from @Marketingprofs about strategic planning. It was mostly related to setting online goals and ROI, but it also can be applied to lots of other things too.

    For me, personally, I currently feel a bit stuck. I'm looking for a new job (while still working at my non-profit), and finding that new job is a priority. Because I'm being somewhat flexible with location, goal planning for the rest of my life in 2010 seems a bit in limbo. My main priorities are a) getting a new job and b) moving to a new apartment *somewhere*.

    I do love your 90-day and 30-day charting and breaking things down into doable tasks.

  • http://www.thepromotionguy.com/ Scott Toomey

    Sherman – I love your approach…R.O.C.K.ing. As someone who has always set goals, and who has lost focus of goals, I really like this. It gives me a straight forward simplistic way to set goals…breaking them down to the smallest part.

    I know you mentioned without discussing and talking about your goals…they sort of just fell in place. What are your thoughts on obtaining an accountability partner for these goals? Do you think it would help to stay laser focused on your goals and how would you go about selecting and informing your accountability partner?

  • jennvaccaro

    Wonderful! I have felt like I have lost my path since marrying, giving birth, pursuing my career, etc…What a great way to get back on track, get the priorities straight and make the relationships click again. The plan is easy – (yet, I can see how I could make it hard on myself)! Just making myself accountable – doing the planning, writing it all down…asking myself the question – What do I want to say I accomplished in 2010? Is is inspiring and do-able. I am starting to believe that 2010 will be the year that Jenn finds herself again!

  • http://www.thepromotionguy.com/ Scott Toomey

    I am with you…Charting and Life Areas hit me between the eyes…Duh! :)

  • jennvaccaro

    What great information. So much power in the question “What do you want to say you have accomplished in 2010?” That speaks volumes to me. Never have I made myself personally accountable for my own successes and failures, just sort of took the praise and the hits and they happened. I am looking forward to reviewing, planning, writing it down to make it real, and then living it. The economy has hit my industry hard, but I am not going to blame any failures in 2010 on that – it is too easy. In the 4 years since my child was born, my husband and I have not invested in each other as we should – again, so easy to change just by planning and it is real when you write it. Thank you for providing a way to map – a way for action…a way to ROCK!

  • sarahrobinson

    Whew! What a day!! I have a sparkling new Facebook Group for you all to connect to each other in. You can do that here if you would like: http://www.facebook.com/#/group.php?v=wall&gid=….

    And I can tell you all liked my friend Sherman just a little bit. :-) Told you I had pretty amazing friends! And now my amazing tribe is showing off how wonderful they are to the world. SO proud of YOU!!!

  • http://twitter.com/jayelisson jaye lisson

    Love SMART action plans! This is a strategy we use at work with coaching and any and all action plans…..brilliant feedback :)

  • islandgusto

    Sherman,

    Thanks so much. For years I've thought I was planning, as someone else said, just floated along. The action steps were missing. This will help me get to where I want to be at the end of 2010.

    - Margaret

  • tangcydisqus

    Love the ROCKING OUT acronym, Sherman! Setting goals and creating that success energetically is an amazing way to let your success unfold…sometimes almost by magic!

  • http://momeocommunity.com/ Carla Young

    Love the ROCKING OUT acronym, Sherman! Setting goals and creating that success energetically is an amazing way to let your success unfold…sometimes almost by magic!

  • Mike Korner

    RE: Cloud Symbols – thanks/cool!
    Could also be a subliminal reminder … “When your head goes off into the clouds, you'd best be thinking about these things thing” :)

  • http://twitter.com/lipdesign Lori Paquette

    Thank YOU, Sherman!!! Wow! Wow! Wow! As a visual person, I love charts … this totally puts the “to do” list to shame (I lose them and all the Post It notes sticking to walls, mirrors and computers in my house). This is like a “Life Bagua”! Exactly what I need to incorporate as a planning tool since I have flown by the seat of my pants for too long and have avoided planning like the plague. Your breaking it down by 1 year, 90 day quarterly and 30 days makes it more manageable and less overwhelming. This is a planning tool I can relate to. I'm A.D.D. and overwhelm easily. R.O.C.K. on!

    I've got lots of work to do on this. My #1 “action plan” for 2010 (not resolution) is to clean and organize my office because I can't start anything until I control the chaos that has taken over in there. Had a vision of a blackboard wall w/ magnetic paint underneath it to house all my ideas and plans … like my R.O.C.K. charts. I love that you address Life goals in addition to Business goals. I'm slapping my hand to my forehead like so many others here today going “Doh! Yeah, life … “

  • http://twitter.com/SunshineBoat Sunshine Boatright

    OMGosh! I feel like I want to say where have you been & why hasn't someone told me about you sooner!

    I have recently had someone comment (several someone's actually) that because of my life/personality/ADD I'm not a planner & some have gone so far as to say I should give up the ghost on it. And while I do love spontaneity with some things, I know that part of my biz frustrations are from not being able to do a workable plan. This post is definitely something that gives me what I need (big picture, broken down to smaller picture, broken down to smaller elements). It's funny, I can do it for my kids (we homeschool as well) and even do it for my one son (who has autism), but hadn't “seen” a way to do it for myself.

    Going to print this out NOW, before I go to bed, so something else doesn't divert me later. THANK YOU for breaking it down like you did. You have absolutely NO IDEA just how crucial this is to what I've been needing RIGHT now. I've been in a state for the past few days where I felt like I may have to give up because I just couldn't get it broken down & the overwhelm was crushing me. So thank you, for a simple, broken down, workable plan that has now given me more hope than you can imagine. :)

  • http://twitter.com/lipdesign Lori Paquette

    Carla, I love how you use the term “energetically” here. So true.

  • http://momeomagazine.com/ Carla Young

    It's so true…amazing things happen when you shift your focus to planting seeds!

    (That's one of my momentum secrets – planting seeds Monday…sometimes even Sunday and watching them bloom through the week)!

  • Anonymous

    Thank you for this…I realise although I do review there is so much more that I can get out of the process…and I appreciate the visual nature of what you’ve done…

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Sarah, thanks for sharing what you appreciated about this process. Yes, keep on massaging the “REVIEW” – you may come across some gems worth unpacking for! I’m glad the visuals helped you. Blessings on your 2010 journey!!

  • http://kevinvandever.com/ Kevin Vandever

    Hi Sherman,

    Thanks for sharing this. It is exactly what I need as I have never been one to write down goals or plan out a year as you've laid out. I certainly have goals and I want to change and grow, but I just don't typically work in such an organized manner. This will be an excellent exercise for me to tackle.

    Thanks again,

    Kevin.

  • http://marjorymejia.com/ Marjory

    Hi Sherman, thanks for sharing this information. Oftentimes, we just do things on default mode but growing means become aware of the patterns. I love the process of reviewing the past year to learn from things that did or didn't work.
    I like this step by step visioning journey, it makes the whole thing less intimidating. When one finally commits oneself, all kind of heavenly and earthy forces come to move us forward on our path.
    Let's rock it!!

  • Writergrrl

    That's exactly what I thought (with requisite head slap), “Duh!”… Glad I wasn't the only one, Scott!

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Thx Mark! Apprc8 the props on this post & the acronym ;-) True, re: using R.O.C.K. for short/long periods. ROCK ON!

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Good evening, Sue…thanks for sharing your feedback! Apprc8 ya reading & diggin' the charting and 'bite-sized' tasking :-)
    RE: your situation…R.O.C.K. is will fit hand in glove with what U R hoping to accomplish. Why?
    (1) You can still plan for success in your role at the non-profit,
    (2) You can project the type of new job, success and satisfaction you will receive from this new to-be-found job (regardless of what type of job it is),
    (3) You can still plan for your other Life Areas, even if you don't know where you'll be living in 3-6 months – because your life still continues regardless, unless its intrinsically tied to your current locale. U know what I mean?

    Work through the process, assuming you'll find the new job in your current city. You are the R.O.C.K.er, and you can change your plans as you go to fit your new environment, not the other way around where you get stuck in a box, ya know? Just like in “Dirty Dancing” when Johnny says, “No one puts Baby in a corner!” :-) Don't let your plans put U in a corner, plan it, and feel free to 'dance', or ROCK IT OUT! ;-)

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Coming from a planner and goal-setter, what you shared is a great compliment, thanks! Acct Partner/s is a brilliant concept. Find a person with affinity, similar passions and vision for charting their life and moving forward. Preferably someone U know and have history, or who has the guts to call “b*llsh*t” when U start dishing it :-) ROCK ON!

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Congrats Jenn! Wlcm back on your own path…yes, K.I.S.S., ya know? Don't overcomplicate it. It's definitely do-able. Like Rob Schneider in 'The Waterboy' says, “YOU CAN DEW EEEEEET!”

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Hey Jaye…that's SMART! ;-)

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Right on, Margaret! Well, you could “Float like a butterfly, sting like a bee”, no? :-) Hopefully this R.O.C.K.ing plan will be “bee” your nectar to a sweeeeeeet year ahead! <OMG, I'm soooo corny!>

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Hiya LP, thanks for sharing! I'm thrilled you shared so much with such focus, considering your ADD! ROTFLMAO :-)

    Good on ya for committing to office clean+organize, helps a bunch! Plus, working on our whole life makes us better, well-rounded, healthier, sexier and wealthier!! ;-)

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    I've been hangin' out here all this while, Sunshine! ;-) Weird how we can do for others so effectively, yet for ourselves we (sometimes) get stuck, no? (Talking out loud to myself…) “Have to consider an out-of-body experience to make this work!” :-)

    Good on ya for printing this. Great idea! Thrilled U find great value in this R.O.C.K.ing plan! Here's to many blessings of HOPE for you and your journey in 2010! ;-)

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Right on, Kevin! Here's to your success in ROCKing out 2010! ;-)

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Hiya Marjory, U R wlcm! The REVIEW is one of my favorite practices and I look forward to it every year ;-) Nowadays, when I detail events and “stuff” in my Moleskine, I write it with the thought/vision that I'm going to go through this at year end, so I try to make it make sense for later ;-) Here's to your success in your journey in 2010!

  • lisinha_a

    Hi Sherman,

    Upon reading this post, my first reaction was “oh noooooo, not planning!” I can't do this. My job is to plan. As a project manager it's crucial that I plan every step of a project that I work on to stay on time, budget and within scope. I do an excellent job at this – in my professional life.

    Planning in my personal life is a different story. I'm a mom of a wonderful, energetic, six year-old. Its easy to plan her life… Play-dates, lunch, school, extra-curricular activities, etc. That stuff is a no-brainer. Yet, when it comes to me I hit major roadblocks. My mind goes completely blank and when I saw this post I was terrified.

    I read it several times today and kept coming back to it. Finally I sat down and went through the exercise. Boy, was it an eye-opener. I realized that I had accomplishments that I didn't even think that I had when I begun the exercise. I also had frustrations that I had just accepted as being “life”.

    I'm not done with all the steps yet, but feel really good about where I am. I'm excited to get through the last two steps. I believe this will be a wonderful tool as I move through the year.

    Thank you Sherman, this was a good first step in moving me out of my comfort zone.

    ~Lisa

  • Anonymous

    I was another “I’ve done this before”… and indeed I have already written a “looking back on the year” letter to myself to open on January 1 2011.

    But I found the exercise of looking back on 2009 particularly useful, because one of the patterns I found was that of repeatedly saying to myself “Just this once won’t matter- tomorrow, or next time, I’ll do it right/completely/differently.”

    And a whole year of that insidiously destructive thinking has kept me stuck in most areas of my life and business pretty well where I was in January 2009.

    So that fact that I did all the tasks you gave me today is progress!

    The second thing I was very appreciative of was your saying to concentrate on just three main areas at a time. I’m a perfectionist, and trying to make substantial progress in every single area last year was another thing that kept me in overwhelm and stuckness.

    I do have goals for the whole year in each area – and I’ve written them down.

    But I’m going to focus on just three (3 Big Rocks, 3 MIT’s) and make sure those come first.

    Thanks for a terrific first day’s “class”, and for the extra information in the answers to posts.

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Shelagh, Shelagh! Thanks for breaking through, even with your original ‘done this before’ thoughts ;-) I’m soooooo proud of U for completing all the tasks today! Yay to PROGRESS!!

      I’m sure there are many perfectionists and ‘closet perfectionists’ “in da house!” here in Sarah’s tribe, and count me in that number! It’s a constant process and journey to realize PERFECTION is a myth, a lie, a mis-truth that will hold us back. Doing everything perfect is insanity! For me, I have to focus on “Process”, “Progress”, and “Great is Good!” ;-)

      Yes, keep it simple. 3 is good too! Congrats once again, and here’s to you and your ROCKing journey this 2010!!

  • http://twitter.com/Mikki_Q Michele Sieniarecki

    Christine, I had to double-check your post, as I was sure I had written it in some sort of haze earlier and just didn't remember doing so! You and I share that ability to plan but not follow through. I'm going to make a concerted effort to put all these tips into practice! Thanks, Sherman, for the valuable info! And thanks to Sarah (Robinson) for putting together this “Game Change”… if this is the kind of info we can expect, I'm more excited than ever that I signed up!

  • sarahyewtree

    Thank you for this…I realise although I do review there is so much more that I can get out of the process…and I appreciate the visual nature of what you've done…

  • Guest

    Great post, Sherman. I’ve been using Design Your Best Year Ever by Darren Hardy the last couple of years and there are some similarities but I am a very visual person and your charts rock. I’ll be incorporating them into my 2010 binder. Thanks for the great idea!

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Thanks for your feedback! Appreciate you diggin’ the visuals ;-) ROCK OUT 2010, eh?! ;-)

  • http://livingroomrealtors.com/ Katrina Bell

    Thanks for the great post, Sherman and the series, Sarah. I’ve been using Design Your Best Year Every by Darren Hardy the last couple of years but I am very visual and your charts rock Sherman! I will definitely be incorporating them into my 2010 planning binder. Thanks to you both! Look forward to the rest of the series.

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Thanks for your feedback, Katrina! Appreciate you diggin’ the visuals ;-) ROCK OUT 2010, eh?! ;-)

  • http://twitter.com/JamieLaceyPR jamielacey28

    A slightly delayed response here, but I have to say that I’ve completed just part of Sherman’s exercise and found it exhausting and immediately rewarding. At the end of the evening yesterday, I reviewed the 2009 accomplishments and frustrations across the various life areas with my husband. I should add here that 2009 was a year of HUGE CHANGE for me on all fronts. I moved myself and my pre-teen son to a new part of the state, remarried, and voluntarily left my solid corporate job of nearly 7 years to start my own PR consulting firm.

    After I read through my 2009 year-in-review with my husband, he provided a few additional points, hugged me and told me how proud he was of me and of us. Yes, this is just the first step, but it helped identify some key themes for me and validated just how much I had done. Nice!

    There’s no doubt that reflection helps to remove our mindsets from the day-to-day worries and to plant the seeds for an even brighter future. Thanks, Sherman (and Sarah)!

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Jamie-Lacey, 3 cheers to you being exhausted & rewarded!! W00T!! Congrats! WOW, U did go through a ton in ’09, didn’t U?! I’m sooooo pumped your husband affirmed U and championed your journey!! Good man!! ROCK ON!!

  • Cheryl

    Good to “meet” you, Sherman. This is really relevant stuff … I’ve difficulty with being overwhelmed with too many valuable goals and projects. In one part of my life, I *know* the value of defined Action Items. Thanks for the prompt to move this into my whole life, so that I can be of more value to myself and others.

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Cheryl, pleasure to meet U too! Thanks for sharing and appreciating this post. Here’s to you moving ACTION into your whole life in 2010! ROCK ON!!

  • christinelivingston

    Tricia, apologies if you get two comments from me along the same lines. I thought I'd sent a message, but then scrolling through, it didn't seem to be there, so I'm trying again.

    I just wanted to say that it's good to know other people are having the same experience. I think your point about information overload is spot on. I can find myself flitting between doing important stuff, like writing, and checking email, Twitter etc. As you say, being present with what's in front of us is key. I'm going to be more mindful of that today, thanks to you :)

    I like Sherman's ideas for Big Rocks and MITs and I'm going to try incorporating these into my life too.

    Good to connect with you and hoping this series allows you to thrive and fly!

  • christinelivingston

    Sherman, thanks so much for this. I hadn't seen the comments about 3 Rocks and 3 MITs, but I've scrolled back now and read them. Really simple, and actually I think I have a real need to make less mean more. So, lesson learned!

  • christinelivingston

    Me too, Michele! I'll be interested to see how you find this series helping you and to learn anything you have to share along the way.

    Good to talk to you!

  • http://twitter.com/SpiritusShelagh Shelagh at Spiritus

    I was another “I've done this before”… and indeed I have already written a “looking back on the year” letter to myself to open on January 1 2011.

    But I found the exercise of looking back on 2009 particularly useful, because one of the patterns I found was that of repeatedly saying to myself “Just this once won't matter- tomorrow, or next time, I'll do it right/completely/differently.”

    And a whole year of that insidiously destructive thinking has kept me stuck in most areas of my life and business pretty well where I was in January 2009.

    So that fact that I did all the tasks you gave me today is progress!

    The second thing I was very appreciative of was your saying to concentrate on just three main areas at a time. I'm a perfectionist, and trying to make substantial progress in every single area last year was another thing that kept me in overwhelm and stuckness.

    I do have goals for the whole year in each area – and I've written them down.

    But I'm going to focus on just three (3 Big Rocks, 3 MIT's) and make sure those come first.

    Thanks for a terrific first day's “class”, and for the extra information in the answers to posts.

  • Anonymous

    Your three goal setting questions are fantastic! I’ve always been intimidated by choosing a goal to set, but before I knew it, I had a nice sized list of things that I will be happy to report to friends and family next holiday season. Thanks so much!

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Jessi, appreciate the props! CONGRATS on your 2010 End of Year Holiday Report! Just watch how impressed your friends and family will be when U share your victories of 2010 with them! ;-)

  • katrinabell

    Great post, Sherman. I've been using Design Your Best Year Ever by Darren Hardy the last couple of years and there are some similarities but I am a very visual person and your charts rock. I'll be incorporating them into my 2010 binder. Thanks for the great idea!

  • katrinabell

    Thanks for the great post, Sherman and the series, Sarah. I've been using Design Your Best Year Every by Darren Hardy the last couple of years but I am very visual and your charts rock Sherman! I will definitely be incorporating them into my 2010 planning binder. Thanks to you both! Look forward to the rest of the series.

  • http://twitter.com/jamielacey28 jamielacey28

    A slightly delayed response here, but I have to say that I've completed just part of Sherman's exercise and found it exhausting and immediately rewarding. At the end of the evening yesterday, I reviewed the 2009 accomplishments and frustrations across the various life areas with my husband. I should add here that 2009 was a year of HUGE CHANGE for me on all fronts. I moved myself and my pre-teen son to a new part of the state, remarried, and voluntarily left my solid corporate job of nearly 7 years to start my own PR consulting firm.

    After I read through my 2009 year-in-review with my husband, he provided a few additional points, hugged me and told me how proud he was of me and of us. Yes, this is just the first step, but it helped identify some key themes for me and validated just how much I had done. Nice!

    There's no doubt that reflection helps to remove our mindsets from the day-to-day worries and to plant the seeds for an even brighter future. Thanks, Sherman (and Sarah)!

  • Cheryl

    Good to “meet” you, Sherman. This is really relevant stuff … I've difficulty with being overwhelmed with too many valuable goals and projects. In one part of my life, I *know* the value of defined Action Items. Thanks for the prompt to move this into my whole life, so that I can be of more value to myself and others.

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  • jessimiller

    Your three goal setting questions are fantastic! I've always been intimidated by choosing a goal to set, but before I knew it, I had a nice sized list of things that I will be happy to report to friends and family next holiday season. Thanks so much!

  • http://twitter.com/PamelaM Pamela Miles

    Sherman,

    Great to “meet” you! Thanks for your easy to follow directions and illustrations. Wish you had created this in a format I could use online – I woulda bought it!

    Have always appreciated the “Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate…” quote. Was that originally from Marianne Williamson or just that I first heard it from her in the 80′s?

    Here’s to a wonderful 2010!
    Pamela

    P.S. my son (homeschooled for 4th & 7th grade) is now an inner city school teacher – and lovin’ it!

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Pamela, great to meet U too! U R welcome ;-) Fancy U mentioning it, a product is in the works! ;-) Trust U’ll be one of my first happy customers?

      I believe that quote came from Marianne Williamson, or so I was told. I just love the power of that quote!

      Diggin’ that U homeschooled your son too! ROCK ON, Mommy!

      Pamela, many blessings on your 2010 journey! :-)

  • Kristin

    Thank you so much for sharing, Sherman. I have reviewed my past years for three years and found it very helpful. Every year I look again at my goals and resolutions I made at the start of that year to see what I have accomplished and what I might have to transfer to the next year.
    But I never used such a detailed plan as you presented to us, Sherman. In the past, my method was somehow working but it was still more like floating than being focused on achieving my goals. I am not yet through with all the planning for 2010. But I am confident that it will ROCK!

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Right on, Kristin!! So you’re already familiar with the power and benefits of ‘REVIEWING”. Congrats on moving forward with your 2010 planning. W00T!!

  • http://twitter.com/PamelaM Pamela Miles

    Sherman,

    Great to “meet” you! Thanks for your easy to follow directions and illustrations. Wish you had created this in a format I could use online – I woulda bought it!

    Have always appreciated the “Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate…” quote. Was that originally from Marianne Williamson or just that I first heard it from her in the 80's?

    Here's to a wonderful 2010!
    Pamela

    P.S. my son (homeschooled for 4th & 7th grade) is now an inner city school teacher – and lovin' it!

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Lisa, thanks for sharing your thoughts on this, especially from a pro Project Manager! ;-) Isn't it odd we have phrases like “The cobbler's children have no shoes” and designer's sites that aren't given as much TLC as their clients' ;-)

    Thanks for taking the time to return repeatedly to this post and breaking through with working on the exercises for yourself!

    What thrilled me is how you uncovered other accomplishments previously forgotten!! BRILLIANT!! And yes, let's not forget the learning lessons from “life” or frustrations too!

    Lisa, thanks soooo much for sharing your victory with me/us. I'm excited you're excited and here's to you moving further out of your comfort zone and a ROCKin' 2010!! W00T!!

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Sarah, thanks for sharing what you appreciated about this process. Yes, keep on massaging the “REVIEW” – you may come across some gems worth unpacking for! I'm glad the visuals helped you. Blessings on your 2010 journey!!

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Shelagh, Shelagh! Thanks for breaking through, even with your original 'done this before' thoughts ;-) I'm soooooo proud of U for completing all the tasks today! Yay to PROGRESS!!

    I'm sure there are many perfectionists and 'closet perfectionists' “in da house!” here in Sarah's tribe, and count me in that number! It's a constant process and journey to realize PERFECTION is a myth, a lie, a mis-truth that will hold us back. Doing everything perfect is insanity! For me, I have to focus on “Process”, “Progress”, and “Great is Good!” ;-)

    Yes, keep it simple. 3 is good too! Congrats once again, and here's to you and your ROCKing journey this 2010!!

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Thanks for your feedback! Appreciate you diggin' the visuals ;-) ROCK OUT 2010, eh?! ;-)

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Thanks for your feedback, Katrina! Appreciate you diggin' the visuals ;-) ROCK OUT 2010, eh?! ;-)

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Jamie-Lacey, 3 cheers to you being exhausted & rewarded!! W00T!! Congrats! WOW, U did go through a ton in '09, didn't U?! I'm sooooo pumped your husband affirmed U and championed your journey!! Good man!! ROCK ON!!

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Cheryl, pleasure to meet U too! Thanks for sharing and appreciating this post. Here's to you moving ACTION into your whole life in 2010! ROCK ON!!

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Jessi, appreciate the props! CONGRATS on your 2010 End of Year Holiday Report! Just watch how impressed your friends and family will be when U share your victories of 2010 with them! ;-)

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Pamela, great to meet U too! U R welcome ;-) Fancy U mentioning it, a product is in the works! ;-) Trust U'll be one of my first happy customers? <wink>

    I believe that quote came from Marianne Williamson, or so I was told. I just love the power of that quote!

    Diggin' that U homeschooled your son too! ROCK ON, Mommy!

    Pamela, many blessings on your 2010 journey! :-)

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    U R welcome ;-) I'll have a product for ROCKing out shortly…coming soon to a browser near you ;-)

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Connie, U R wlcm ;-) Glad I could help you stay out of the 'rabbit hole' ;-) Here's to your FOCUS in 2010! ;-)

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Stephanie, good on ya! U will definitely be blessed by the side benefits of planning together! Time together, being in sync – mentally, in your spirit, physically, emotionally, and its amazing what a couple who is in love and in sync can accomplish! “Watch out world, Stephanie and hubby coming through!” ROCK ON!!

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Writergrrl, proud of U for observing your own 'resistance' and what it means from here on out. Not all resistance is 'off', but your intuition will be on point. Do keep in touch via Twitter (@ShermanHu) to let me know how you're ROCKin', k? Cheers!

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Teresa, I observed my own resistance today, and realized it was self-imposed. I dug in, checked into my 3MITs again, and broke through! What was rollin' in my head was, “Motion Before Motivation”. And I did do damage to 2 of my 3 MITs today, might even get some motion on MIT #3 later tonight! ;-) ROCK ON!!

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Writergrrl, thanks for your props, very humbling! W00T, W00T to fav quotes/concepts – really dig 'em too! Hope other peeps get to dive into the comments as I've revealed other productivity concepts that could really be another full-out article! ;-) Cheers!

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    ROCK ON with PIMPIN' IT OUT!! :-)

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Teresa, THAT'S BRILLIANT you're taking the same FLAVA FLAV energy from Cookin', over to your Plannin' ;-) And be sure to spice it up with some cayenne! HAWT!! ;-)

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Shelley, did he read it? What did he say?

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Kristie, I give the highest, MUCHO PROPS to single parents!! It's definitely some serious butt-kickin' work! Appreciate the journey you've been walking. WOW! You've got a whole lot of spinning plates coming…do care for yourself ok? I've burnt out before, and my wife shared it took me 2 years to get back to my 'normal self'. And yes, have fun! ;-)

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Thanks Trina! Here's to your 'one bite' !! ;-)

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Amelia, thanks so much for your 2010 well wishes for me! Appreciate ya! :-)

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Tricia, you are welcome! ;-) How's the view from the other tree? :-)

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    You are welcome, Megan! Brilliant! ;-)

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    You are welcome, Michele! Here's to your follow through in 2010! ;-)

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    LOL!! I remember being told I had my head in the clouds – alot – when I was growing up!! ;-)

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Jenn, GOOD ON YA!! Do keep in touch to let me know how you're keeping yourself accountable to your own wins and losses, k? Esp how you're doing INVESTING BACK into your relationship with your MAN! You won't regret investing in your relationship/marriage, it pays wonderful dividends! ROCK ON!!

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Carla, thanks bella! WAY TO ROCK OUT on Day 3!! W00T!! Knew U'd dig the acronym ;-)

  • kristieschwanebeck

    Hi Sherman, I am getting my MA in counselling psychology and my program is really good about ensuring that we learn how to self care because we are faced so much with the trauma of our clients. So I do try and ensure I have fun and today got accepted to be a Miss BC contestant. So that should be fun….

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    AWESOME!!!! CONGRATS on your Miss BC contestant acceptance!! W00T!!! I'm in Abbotsford, where do U hail from?

  • kristieschwanebeck

    I am in PoCo although I am out in Langley a couple times a week for classes. I would love to meet over coffee to pick your brain if that is at all possible

  • kristinmarquardt

    Thank you so much for sharing, Sherman. I have reviewed my past years for three years and found it very helpful. Every year I look again at my goals and resolutions I made at the start of that year to see what I have accomplished and what I might have to transfer to the next year.
    But I never used such a detailed plan as you presented to us, Sherman. In the past, my method was somehow working but it was still more like floating than being focused on achieving my goals. I am not yet through with all the planning for 2010. But I am confident that it will ROCK!

  • http://midliferoadtrip.tv McMedia

    I have been floundering looking for focus & purpose, that is until now! Sherman, you are exactly what I was looking for. It finally clicked. Your advise resonated with me. I feel energized and on track~moving forward to purpose and my destination in my sights!

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      BRILLIANT, Sandi! Here’s to your energizing journey this 2010! ROCK ON ;-)

  • triciadycka

    Hey Sherman
    The view is really broad with lots of vines showing the different trees I can swing to:) This is too funny. Thans

  • http://twitter.com/McMedia Sandi McKenna

    I have been floundering looking for focus & purpose, that is until now! Sherman, you are exactly what I was looking for. It finally clicked. Your advise resonated with me. I feel energized and on track~moving forward to purpose and my destination in my sights!

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    BRILLIANT, Sandi! Here's to your energizing journey this 2010! ROCK ON ;-)

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Right on, Kristin!! So you're already familiar with the power and benefits of 'REVIEWING”. Congrats on moving forward with your 2010 planning. W00T!!

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Kristie, best to connect over the phone or skype :-) Email me @ shermanlive [at] gmail [dot] com to kick it off, k? Cheers!

  • http://kcarpenter.pnn.com/ QuestionKerri

    Thanks so much, Amy! I loved what you said and I really get it. My BFF has declared this “the year of Kerri.” And I think it's the best time for me to finally put myself first and concentrate on all of the things I love and that make me happy. ;-)

  • http://kcarpenter.pnn.com/ QuestionKerri

    Thanks Sherman!!! I'm definitely vibin' with it! I can't control other people but I can control myself and the things I choose to do and enjoy. I'm going to really set aside some time to go over my whole Wheel of Life. (Sorry it took me so long to reply – icky cold and super busy at work.) Thank you so much again!

  • http://deirdrereid.wordpress.com Deirdre Reid

    What a morning I’ve had doing my plan for 2010. I’m still working on it but I feeling much more confident about the year ahead by doing this. I’m going to take a yoga break now but will return later to do my action steps for this month. Yes, I’m a few days behind but I will catch up this weekend. This is good thoughtful work so I don’t want to rush it. Thanks, Sherman, for showing us the way!

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      DR, good morning! Super that you’re feeling confident for 2010! You are right about not rushing it, better ‘later’ than ‘not at all’ when it comes to planning. ROCK ON!

  • http://deirdrereid.wordpress.com Deirdre Reid

    What a morning I've had doing my plan for 2010. I'm still working on it but I feeling much more confident about the year ahead by doing this. I'm going to take a yoga break now but will return later to do my action steps for this month. Yes, I'm a few days behind but I will catch up this weekend. This is good thoughtful work so I don't want to rush it. Thanks, Sherman, for showing us the way!

  • Anonymous

    This is something I need to work on this year as I work on building my consulting business. I suck at goal setting,planning and taking action and I have a hard time with consistency. I have read all of these comments and I can see that I am not alone and that makes me feel better. I got to thinking just the last two days since I Stumbled across this challenge that in this decade I want to require more from myself so that I can be in the top ranks with other consulting firms out there like Mackensie. I want to be the consultant in Topeka that people can recognize by name 10 yrs from now. I will be honest here in that I have Seasonal Affective Disorder along with moderate to severe depression so some days it is a task just to get my head out of bed and get motivated to do anything. I realize that I need to work through this somehow so I can do what I want to do with my life. I realy do want to be the squeaky wheel that gets the grease in the coming year and in the years to come.

    • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

      Joe, thanks for sharing with such transparency and courage. Appreciate U! RE: SAD, I would recommend looking at natural solutions to help, eg. SAD lights, natural supplements like Vitamin D etc. You’ve gotta take care of ‘home base’ first before U can conquer the world, U know? ;-) Once U can improve your SAD, U can think straight to planning with my R.O.C.K. template and make bold steps towards being a ROCKing consultant in Topeka! ;-) Here’s to your growth and journey in 2010!!

      • Anonymous

        Actually I am going to the gym now and going to apply ROCK to my personal goals for myself as well. I know that it can help me in both aspects of my life.

        • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

          One of the things I haven’t shared, and there’s alot shared in the comments alone, besides the main article – is that when you win in one Life Area, you can’t help but bleed victory into other areas of your life.Personally, when I’m not winning/feeling like I’m winning in my business/productivity, I head to the tennis courts. It’s my favorite sport, used to compete when I was a junior, and nothing matters when I’m on the court but the game. Even when I don’t win my set/s, but have played a good game, I feel like a WINNER! That feeling carries over to my business & personal life areas & all-round general great spirit! To be candid, I’m grinning like a Cheshire cat after my games, and Sarah knows I’ve had a great time. When she realizes I’m grumpy or in a mood, she’s fast to recommend I head out for a game! LOL!!Your comment about heading to the gym triggered this thought. Good for U! And yes, applying R.O.C.K. to your whole life will be BRILLIANT!!

  • joecheray

    Michele I copied and pasted it into Google Doc's and printed it off. You could probably use Word too but Google Doc's automatically converts it to a PDF. That way you can save it two ways to refer back to.

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    DR, good morning! Super that you're feeling confident for 2010! You are right about not rushing it, better 'later' than 'not at all' when it comes to planning. ROCK ON!

  • michelesfakianos

    Thanks – I copied and pasted into Word. It didn't look quite so good, so I'll try Google Doc.

  • joecheray

    This is brilliant one other good reason accountability is key in setting goals.

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Thx Joe! Appreciate your feedback re: accountability and your previous one about Google Docs/Word/PDF option ;-)

  • joecheray

    This is something I need to work on this year as I work on building my consulting business. I suck at goal setting,planning and taking action and I have a hard time with consistency. I have read all of these comments and I can see that I am not alone and that makes me feel better.

    I got to thinking just the last two days since I Stumbled across this challenge that in this decade I want to require more from myself so that I can be in the top ranks with other consulting firms out there like Mackensie. I want to be the consultant in Topeka that people can recognize by name 10 yrs from now.

    I will be honest here in that I have Seasonal Affective Disorder along with moderate to severe depression so some days it is a task just to get my head out of bed and get motivated to do anything. I realize that I need to work through this somehow so I can do what I want to do with my life.

    I realy do want to be the squeaky wheel that gets the grease in the coming year and in the years to come.

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    Joe, thanks for sharing with such transparency and courage. Appreciate U! RE: SAD, I would recommend looking at natural solutions to help, eg. SAD lights, natural supplements like Vitamin D etc. You've gotta take care of 'home base' first before U can conquer the world, U know? ;-) Once U can improve your SAD, U can think straight to planning with my R.O.C.K. template and make bold steps towards being a ROCKing consultant in Topeka! ;-) Here's to your growth and journey in 2010!!

  • joecheray

    Actually I am going to the gym now and going to apply ROCK to my personal goals for myself as well. I know that it can help me in both aspects of my life.

  • http://debmallett.com/ Deb Mallett

    What a great idea – the left/right sides of the journal! I have the exact same problem Connie has and this sounds very promising. Thank you for this suggestion. The whole article is fantastic, Sherman. I am putting it all into practice and looking forward to seeing it all unfold.

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    U R welcome, Deb! It's a very practical yet productive solution to overwhelm. Share your results when you've put it into practice ;-)

  • http://www.ShermanLive.com Sherman Hu

    One of the things I haven't shared, and there's alot shared in the comments alone, besides the main article – is that when you win in one Life Area, you can't help but bleed victory into other areas of your life.

    Personally, when I'm not winning/feeling like I'm winning in my business/productivity, I head to the tennis courts. It's my favorite sport, used to compete when I was a junior, and nothing matters when I'm on the court but the game. Even when I don't win my set/s, but have played a good game, I feel like a WINNER! That feeling carries over to my business & personal life areas & all -round general great spirit! To be candid, I'm grinning like a Cheshire cat after my games, and Sarah knows I've had a great time. When she realized I'm grumpy or in a mood, she's fast to recommend I head out for a game! LOL!!

    Your comment about heading to the gym triggered this thought. Good for U! And yes, applying R.O.C.K. to your whole life will be BRILLIANT!!

  • Anonymous

    Making an excel spreadsheet now, unless anyone has a tip about a better tool!

  • http://twitter.com/lazarus2000 Lazarus

    I would suggest blocking your time out. Make a list of 10 things to do each day, and write next to it the time it would take to do them. Got something that will take 5-15 minutes? Do those first and cross them off the list. Its empowering to see that list get smaller and smaller. Dont spend any more time on something than you have allowed yourself.

    Another advantage is if you have something that you set an hour to do, then you know you have a deadline to get it done by and will force yourself to get it done before that time is over.

    Something else I would suggest is to really limit the “time black holes.” For me, the time black hole is email. Now, I check email 3x a day. I give myself 10 minutes each time, for a total of 30 minutes. In that time I know I have 10 minutes each time to read emails, write responses and move onto the next task. (This also keeps me from writing long winded emails.)

    Oh, and my other secret for keeping productive? Music! I play some music that keeps me pumped up and going. Make a Pandora radio station, or an itunes list with your favorite blood pumping music. It'll keep you energized!

  • CatherineVentura

    Making an excel spreadsheet now, unless anyone has a tip about a better tool!

  • christinelivingston

    What a fantastic message, Lazarus! I really appreciate it. Setting time deadlines and limiting time black-holes (in my case reading email and Twitter) I think could really make a difference. I'm going to implement this immediately.

    Hope you're having a fabulous Sunday!

  • http://twitter.com/DooneyPug Lori Finnigan

    Sherman: Thanks so very much for sharing your personal strategies and planning skills with us all. I know Sarah said that some posts would resonate more than others. Your ideas couldn’t have been more appropriate for me than if I had talked with you one-on-one about my current stage in life. I love the planning chart and will spend the rest of this week developing mine (I’m a bit behind in the series but catching up quickly). I must admit that I was a bit sad last night as I reviewed my “A” column and my “F” column and found more items in the “F”. When I woke up this morning, though, I realized that I may have more to do than others but was no longer sad, just energized (okay, maybe a bit scared too). Anyway, thanks so much. How grateful I am to be a part of this series.

  • http://twitter.com/DooneyPug Lori Finnigan

    Sherman: Thanks so very much for sharing your personal strategies and planning skills with us all. I know Sarah said that some posts would resonate more than others. Your ideas couldn't have been more appropriate for me than if I had talked with you one-on-one about my current stage in life. I love the planning chart and will spend the rest of this week developing mine (I'm a bit behind in the series but catching up quickly). I must admit that I was a bit sad last night as I reviewed my “A” column and my “F” column and found more items in the “F”. When I woke up this morning, though, I realized that I may have more to do than others but was no longer sad, just energized (okay, maybe a bit scared too). Anyway, thanks so much. How grateful I am to be a part of this series.

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