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This Escaping Mediocrity Thing is Kind of Messy

I had a whole different blog post planned for today. One that would set just the right tone for my new blog/new brand. You really would have liked it.

But, as you are probably starting to see, very rarely do things actually go as I plan them and today was no exception.

Just as I was about to begin writing my mesmerizing post this morning, I realized that there were still a number of things I needed to clean up after the move. Things like fixing my Aweber box in the top right corner which wasn’t working.  Like re-directing the link for Feedblitz over there to your right.  Like changing the feed links I had in various and sundry places all over the web.  Like remembering exactly how it was I set up my blog feed onto Twitter, Facebook and LinkedIn (spent an hour re-tracing that). Like making sure the comments were visible and working .

Lots and lots of loose threads that needed to be gathered up before we could officially say we were all moved in to this new domain.

Oh – and did I mention that today was a school holiday so the Young Turk was home all day? And that I am preparing to leave for a five-day trip on Wednesday?

There was a time not so long ago when all that would have thrown me into a full tizzy punctuated by an exceptionally bad mood.  I would have engaged in trying to force things to happen the way I wanted them to happen with all the self-will I could muster. Not a pretty sight to behold and I really don’t recommend as a productive course of action – because it isn’t. Productive I mean.

Today, I chose a different way, a calmer way, a saner way. And a way that actually got the end result I was after.

When I realized all that had to be done before I could post, I quickly made two list: 1) Things I had enough skill to take care myself and 2) Things I had no business trying at home.  The first list was a lot shorter than the second list.  So you know what I did? Instead of trying to figure out how to do things that could seriously break my blog (ie inserting html code into a very particular design), I asked for help.help-button-300x225

That’s right. I reached out to the two people I knew who knew how to do this complicated back of the house stuff and asked them if they had time to help me. And guess what? They both graciously agreed to help! Amazing how that works. And now my blog is fully functional (unless something else crops up – which is entirely likely).

The moral of this story is transformation is messy (see the Goo post if you need a refresher on that) and it is a whole lot easier to get through if we ask for help from good friends along the way.

**This post is dedicated to @Lazarus2000 and @tumbledesign – two friends who went way above and beyond the call of duty on my behalf. I am forever grateful.**

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  • http://www.successconnections.com/ Melanie Benson Strick

    Ahhh Sarah….someone needs a team. =-)

    I do love this topic…your new brand…and totally agree! Transformation is messy!

    But so worth it. I’m doing some tranformation too…

    I’ll share soon but the new way I’m choosing to connect with the world is with “The Get Real Revolution”.

    Melanie

    • admin

      Thank you Melanie. The part I didn’t write about was thinking I had all my bases covered with having the right kind of help in place – ah but “the best laid plans of mice and men”, right?!

      Can’t wait to see the new things you are up to!!

  • http://www.successconnections.com Melanie Benson Strick

    Ahhh Sarah….someone needs a team. =-)

    I do love this topic…your new brand…and totally agree! Transformation is messy!

    But so worth it. I’m doing some tranformation too…

    I’ll share soon but the new way I’m choosing to connect with the world is with “The Get Real Revolution”.

    Melanie

    • admin

      Thank you Melanie. The part I didn’t write about was thinking I had all my bases covered with having the right kind of help in place – ah but “the best laid plans of mice and men”, right?!

      Can’t wait to see the new things you are up to!!

  • http://www.FatLossQuickie.com/blog Scott Tousignant

    It’s so great that you took the time to share this experience with us. You could have waited until everything was ‘perfect’ and posted your originally planned post… but then we would have missed out on a great lesson.

    I’m always amazed at how terrified people are when it comes to asking for help. We can’t do everything ourselves, nor should we try. I’ve wasted too many hours trying to do things that were not my strengths when I could have easily asked for help and had more time with my wife and kids having fun doing stress free activities with them.

    The experience that you’ve had from this transformation definitely offers many valuable lessons. It shows that little things, such as changing feed links can be hiding under the radar yet have a big impact on your business. You have me thinking that I should go into my Aweber account and make sure that all my links are pointing to the right spots.

    It’s very awesome to see how you handle adversity and all the surprises that come your way. I totally appreciate that you share the lessons that you learn from your experiences and how they are helping you live life to the fullest.

    I’m already loving the transformation that your blog has been going through. Keep it coming!

    Scott Tousignant

    • admin

      Thank you Scott. You know, I used to do that “waiting til everything was perfect” thing, and then I realized I spend way to much time waiting! Besides, part of my path to escaping mediocrity is telling the truth live, while it is happening instead of pretending and putting ona public mask. And because of supportive people like you, that is getting easier and easier to do. :-)

  • http://www.FatLossQuickie.com/blog Scott Tousignant

    It’s so great that you took the time to share this experience with us. You could have waited until everything was ‘perfect’ and posted your originally planned post… but then we would have missed out on a great lesson.

    I’m always amazed at how terrified people are when it comes to asking for help. We can’t do everything ourselves, nor should we try. I’ve wasted too many hours trying to do things that were not my strengths when I could have easily asked for help and had more time with my wife and kids having fun doing stress free activities with them.

    The experience that you’ve had from this transformation definitely offers many valuable lessons. It shows that little things, such as changing feed links can be hiding under the radar yet have a big impact on your business. You have me thinking that I should go into my Aweber account and make sure that all my links are pointing to the right spots.

    It’s very awesome to see how you handle adversity and all the surprises that come your way. I totally appreciate that you share the lessons that you learn from your experiences and how they are helping you live life to the fullest.

    I’m already loving the transformation that your blog has been going through. Keep it coming!

    Scott Tousignant

    • admin

      Thank you Scott. You know, I used to do that “waiting til everything was perfect” thing, and then I realized I spend way to much time waiting! Besides, part of my path to escaping mediocrity is telling the truth live, while it is happening instead of pretending and putting ona public mask. And because of supportive people like you, that is getting easier and easier to do. :-)

  • http://themarketingmark.blogspot.com MarkSherrick

    That’s totally me – the one who has trouble asking for help. Friend, stranger, teacher, family member, it doesn’t matter who it is. I’m quite sure it’s why I spent a lot of time as a younger man not accomplishing much.

    Fortunately for me, as my skills and abilities grow, it does become a little easier. No idea if I would have done in your situation, probably panic and waffle a bit more than you, but that’s just where my head is at. Especially since I don’t have the network you do, not yet.

    Every so often it helps to read something like your post, because then I know it’s not just me :)

  • Mark sherrick

    That’s totally me – the one who has trouble asking for help. Friend, stranger, teacher, family member, it doesn’t matter who it is. I’m quite sure it’s why I spent a lot of time as a younger man not accomplishing much.

    Fortunately for me, as my skills and abilities grow, it does become a little easier. No idea if I would have done in your situation, probably panic and waffle a bit more than you, but that’s just where my head is at. Especially since I don’t have the network you do, not yet.

    Every so often it helps to read something like your post, because then I know it’s not just me :)

  • http://blog.tumbledesign.com/ Nicky Hajal

    Sarah,

    Just wanted to chime in and say that is was a pleasure to help! :)

    As for me, for one reason or another I tend not to ask for help. I think it’s because I really enjoy learning things I don’t know how to do and I’ve grown up in a time when learning anything is free on the Web. Of course, there’s no substitute for a good teacher, but they can be hard to find.

    That’s more of an observation than anything; it’s definitely an interesting topic to think about!

    -Nicky

  • http://tumbledesign.com Nicky

    Sarah,

    Just wanted to chime in and say that is was a pleasure to help! :)

    As for me, for one reason or another I tend not to ask for help. I think it’s because I really enjoy learning things I don’t know how to do and I’ve grown up in a time when learning anything is free on the Web. Of course, there’s no substitute for a good teacher, but they can be hard to find.

    That’s more of an observation than anything; it’s definitely an interesting topic to think about!

    -Nicky

  • http://www.giuliettathemuse.com/blog giulietta

    Hey Sarah,

    Good post! What scares most people into inaction is not hearing the truth about how messy moving in any direction can be. If they start to hit a few walls they think that’s abnormal, when it’s actually normal.

    Enjoy your vaca!

    Giulietta the Muse

  • http://www.giuliettathemuse.com/blog giulietta

    Hey Sarah,

    Good post! What scares most people into inaction is not hearing the truth about how messy moving in any direction can be. If they start to hit a few walls they think that's abnormal, when it's actually normal.

    Enjoy your vaca!

    Giulietta the Muse