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On Writer's Block & Restistance

Yippy. I am experiencing writer’s block for the first time in a long time.  And I hate it. I sit and stare at the screen trying to think of something interesting to write and pffft – nothing.

Here’s the thing I know though – that I haven’t always known:

For me, writer’s block is usually about resistance. I don’t want to accept where I am – this un-brilliant place. And the more I fight it, the more mired in it I become. Kind of like quick sand.

So, here I am. Showing up on the page, admitting the truth about about where I find myself.

This actually works around all kinds of resistance I put up about a billion different thing. Once I stop arguing with myself about my reality (I am NOT resisting! I am WAY too advanced for that.”), I start testing the edges of what’s going on. Feeling the size and shape of it, getting my bearings, pointing to the map and saying “I am here.”

After I get a rough idea of where I am, I try to observe it as kind of an un-invested outsider. “Huh. Look at that. I’m having writer’s block. Isn’t that interesting?”

By shining the  light on my reality like that (and screwing up the courage to say it out loud), the resistance starts to slowly erode. Sometimes quickly, sometimes slowly, but move it does.

So there you go. Today, I am not brilliant or even remotely witty and I have writer’s block.

What truth might you be resisting today?

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  • http://sallyg.me Sally G.

    Maybe we could align forces? You ARE brilliant – and I happen to be pretty witty. For today, I’ll be the writer – you can be the block. Partnerships can be awesome!

    I read a beautiful phrase in a blog post yesterday that’s theme was Let Inspiration Find You. It said something to the effect of: Make yourself so busy doing whatever it is you’re creating to do that Inspiration gets curious and comes to find out what you’re up to.

    She said it much better than that – but the image is intriguing.

    By the way, the post was pretty good for someone with Writer’s Block!

  • http://sallyg.me Sally G.

    Maybe we could align forces? You ARE brilliant – and I happen to be pretty witty. For today, I’ll be the writer – you can be the block. Partnerships can be awesome!

    I read a beautiful phrase in a blog post yesterday that’s theme was Let Inspiration Find You. It said something to the effect of: Make yourself so busy doing whatever it is you’re creating to do that Inspiration gets curious and comes to find out what you’re up to.

    She said it much better than that – but the image is intriguing.

    By the way, the post was pretty good for someone with Writer’s Block!

  • http://frankdickinson.me/ Frank Dickinson

    This is an interesting technique Sarah ->”After I get a rough idea of where I am, I try to observe it as kind of an un-invested outsider. “Huh. Look at that. I’m having writer’s block. Isn’t that interesting?”

    I think this can be highly powerful. With it you become non invested. You are just stating what is and not resisting it.

    Mulling this one over so more. Thanks!

  • http://frankdickinson.me/ Frank Dickinson

    This is an interesting technique Sarah ->”After I get a rough idea of where I am, I try to observe it as kind of an un-invested outsider. “Huh. Look at that. I’m having writer’s block. Isn’t that interesting?”

    I think this can be highly powerful. With it you become non invested. You are just stating what is and not resisting it.

    Mulling this one over so more. Thanks!