Comments on: So What Stops You?

By: sarahrobinson

sarahrobinson — Fri, 18 Dec 2009 22:52:56 +0000

Wow Alexis. SO SO powerful that you named your biggest scariest fears outloud righ there. I am honored my friend. And now I am cheering for you!!!

By: sarahrobinson

sarahrobinson — Fri, 18 Dec 2009 22:51:35 +0000

Yes but until I specifically indentify my fears and name them out loud, they hold tremendous powere and cannot be eliminated. Ignoring them or pretending they don't exists simply isn't for me.

By: sarahrobinson

sarahrobinson — Fri, 18 Dec 2009 15:52:56 +0000

Wow Alexis. SO SO powerful that you named your biggest scariest fears outloud righ there. I am honored my friend. And now I am cheering for you!!!

By: sarahrobinson

sarahrobinson — Fri, 18 Dec 2009 15:51:35 +0000

Yes but until I specifically indentify my fears and name them out loud, they hold tremendous powere and cannot be eliminated. Ignoring them or pretending they don't exists simply isn't for me.

By: Alexis Martin Neely

Alexis Martin Neely — Tue, 15 Dec 2009 14:47:33 +0000

My biggest fear that holds me back is that I won't be able to have what I really, really, really want. What's so insidious about this fear is that it blocks me from being able to see what I really want. It's a protective measure because as long as I don't want it, I can't get hurt by not having it. As an example, I told myself for years that I didn't really want a man who could take care of me because I would never be dependent on a man. So, guess what? I kept attracting men I had to take care of and told myself that's what I really wanted. Um, no. What I really, really, really, really wanted was a man who could take care of me.

A secondary fear that has held me back a lot is the belief that there will never be one thing that will hold my attention after I "get it" and therefore, I shouldn't pursue something I want really hard because I'm not going to want it once I have it. This has been a big limiter for me. I always want what I can't have and don't want what I can have. This has shown up in relationships, friendships and businesses.

These are great questions Sarah.

Alexis

By: Dr Moe and Savannah

Dr Moe and Savannah — Tue, 15 Dec 2009 14:45:28 +0000

Simply put, FEAR is a form of self delusion. (False Experience Appearing Real) I will assure you, focusing on what you fear and don't want is the surest way to bring that energy into you life experience. The Spiritual and Scientific evidence of the self induced state of fear are indisputable.

For as a man thinketh in his heart, so is he. To consciously create the life of our dreams, we must take total responsibility for our thoughts. And as we take full responsibility for what happens to us we discover that we have been co-creating our lives by our very thoughts. Everything in our outside experience is a reflection of what is happening in our inner thought. That which I affirm, I Am. That which I Am, I affirm.

I hope the resources below assist you in learning to live a life FREE of FEAR. TRUTH given and receive in LOVE heals all. Namaste`

http://yourelevatedlife.com/blog/2009/11/05/fea...
http://www.blogtalkradio.com/yourelevatedlife/2...

By: sarahrobinson

sarahrobinson — Tue, 15 Dec 2009 03:14:49 +0000

Check out today's post and you'll see! http://escaping-mediocrity.com/uncommon-busines...

By: Sean Oliver

Sean Oliver — Tue, 15 Dec 2009 03:11:34 +0000

Hmmm. What will you do about it? What action will you take?

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By: Mark Sherrick

Mark Sherrick — Thu, 10 Dec 2009 23:52:49 +0000

I know exactly what stops me...I always have.

Jealousy.

I know where I should be, where I want to be. Right now i'm not. I see people around me less qualified, less experience, less sense, less anything that I've got, and they are where I should be...and it pisses me off. At least that's what I thought it did...but it's not anger, it's jealousy. I want what they have, and I deserve it, but they have it instead. Every time I encounter something like this, it's a struggle to keep quiet until I'm alone.

That's when stuff starts to circle in my mind and I can't figure it out. Then I usually realize that once again, it'll soon be time for good old loyal mark to come in and fix all the broken crap the other person made.

I realize this shouldn't be something that stops me, but it does. I'm sick of being undervalued, but with nowhere else to go, sometimes I just have to deal with it. It's only a short term stop, but a stop nonetheless.